My boyfriend and i have been dating for about 2 years, and lately he's been seeming like he is just un-interested in me, he went out last night with his buddies, said he would call me to check in and never did. Why the hell is he doing this? He says i'm his one and only, but doesn't treat me like it anymore. My heart is seriously breaking as i write this! I WANT EVERYONES OPINION ON THIS THAT I CAN GET! PLEASE!
2006-10-08 03:40:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your boy friend's lack of interest is troubling. As his behavior has changed, perhaps his feelings have as well. I suggest attempting to have a frank discussion with him to determine what the issues are.
It may be time to alter your relationship with him. I wish you the best and remember that you will grow from the knowledge you obtain in this relationship.
2006-10-08 03:46:20 · answer #1 · answered by david42 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok i think you should try to do something like geting his attention some how! Do something Big that he will never forget! People need to know when you walk into a relationship build a bridge! Bridge means communication. I told me boyfriend that i wanna make our relationship less work as possible! We know about each other! i know when he's out with his friends he might not call me! I understand that and go do something else! sometimes if he does something stupid i laugh about it and then tell him that wasn't the best way to do it! Show him you care and ask for the same in return theres no harm in asking! I keep everything new in our relationship and do something different! On his side of things he probably thinks everything is ok. Tell him how you feel don't let him interupt you with anything! just tell him how you feel and how you would like this relationship to go! Try your best so you don't have to blame yourself for not trying! Get back to the basics! start over without starting over! And also look at how he feels about what's goin on! Does he even see how you feel? Ask tell sit down and talk about it! Don't argue or point fingers! just talk keep everything open!
2006-10-08 10:53:39 · answer #2 · answered by Black Betty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm having the a similar situation here... me too feel that my 3 mth old boyfriend is losing interest in me. So far, he will still contact me when he's out however, I'd have to wait a long time before I can hear from him now. sure is heart-breaking. Well, I tried telling him and asked him straight if we should carry on, he wanted still. If he doesn't want to leave, I'll just accept the fact that he's not going to call that often when he's out enjoying. Sure have to emphasis that we expect more calls from them..
Something to share, when he's out with activites, I'd plan mine as well so that I won't find myself at home waiting for him.
2006-10-08 11:08:52 · answer #3 · answered by Laetishaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry, but did you really expect your relationship to stay exactly the way it started (love notes, flowers, candy, neverending attention, etc)??
It just doesnt work that way. Its about getting comfortable in a relationship. And Ive seemed to have noticed that this happens to men before women.
Stop reading so much into it. You are making yourself miserable for no reason.
2006-10-08 10:46:50 · answer #4 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to tell you but that is normal. Men get comfortable in a relationship and they no longer to the extras. I think he still care for you like he has been telling you he just wants a little space. Talk to him and ask what does he want out of your relationship.
2006-10-08 11:34:48 · answer #5 · answered by Lori K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋