I liked my colleague very much, in fact I think I'm in love with him. I tried talking to my frens to get then to help me test water but no one seemed to want to help.
Pls advise is there any way to test whether he likes me & if I want to ask him, how to get about doing it??
I need very specific & detailed answers.
He's my colleague, I need something that does not make our relationship ackward if the result is negative... Pls help & god bless...
2006-10-08 03:35:06 · 3 answers · asked by ahbahh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's very clear from ur question that u r in love with him and expect the same from him. But remember u can't make anyone love u just bcoz u love him. If u really want to know whether he likes/loves u then u will get to know urself. There is no such tests available in the market. If he is interested then u can see it in his eyes only. Put urself in situations where he has a choice to go with/talk with u and someone else. If he is giving u more attention and time then its a hint for u that he likes .
"To love without condition. To talk without intention. To give without reason and to care without expectation is the heart of a true lover."
2006-10-08 03:49:52 · answer #1 · answered by indu_kain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be patient and not rush into things. You could have lunch break with him somewhere or a cup of tea or something and read his signals correctly because that has led a lot of people to misery. If push come to shove, tell him but not n a desperate sort of way. It never hurts to tell the truth.. If you don't, you could lose the love of your life forever and you may never find love again.. Think about it...
2006-10-08 03:44:04 · answer #2 · answered by Natasha O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about asking him a simple question like going out for a cup of coffe. Then while you are at the cafe see where the conversations takes you.
2006-10-08 03:37:25 · answer #3 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋