But he says they are nobody to him and he'll do anything for you but he stil does the same thing.
2006-10-08 03:31:56 · 12 answers · asked by FirstLady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dump dump dump
2006-10-08 03:33:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh.................... so been there. so still am there. my b/friend is a natural flirt and always he has a charm that he ozzes and women just hang on it. i thought it was harmless as everyone flirts right? true however, when is it too much?
having thought he was happy with me i let his actions slide after all not as if he was doing anything else was it?
wrong.
i found later texts sent to this girl on his phone (granted i should not have went snooping) very explicit and you can tell just what she was texting him although he had the sence to delete those messages.
i kind of confonted him about it leaving out the part about looking through his phone. sying if he was not happy then he should leave and i would not hold it against him. he said he was happy told me not to be stupid all the things i wanted to hear.
next time i seen his phone all messages were deleted although he had been texting pretty much for most of the day.
i chose to ignore the obvious.
and now im not the happiest person in the world i hide behind alot of smiles.
look at the signs. if its just flirting there is no harm of it at the end of the day, as i said before we have all been guilty of it at one time or another but if it turns into more than flirting be careful. dont let yourself get hurt or let him treat you any other way than the way you deserve to be treated.
2006-10-08 10:43:58 · answer #2 · answered by susan d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you don't appreciate it and how would he like you to do that to him. Tell him if him if he is not satisfied to let you know and you will step out of his life and then he can go flirt with all the girl's he wants. Ask him what he thinks these girl's think about him having a girlfriend and flirting with them, I know I wouldn't want a guy like that, he makes himself look bad. Does he need a lot of girl's to boost his ego because he has some low self esteem about himself?
2006-10-08 10:39:42 · answer #3 · answered by lisa b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you dont like it and maybe he will get the hint
but if i were you i would just ignore it some guys are just incapable of not flirting and half the time dont realise there doing it at all. remeber its you hes going home with and you he goes back to take it as a compliment that these girls think hes hot and he doesnt go with them
2006-10-08 10:35:27 · answer #4 · answered by leanne_on_line 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him BUT NEVER do the same thing yourself.
Never flirt while you are in a relationship with someone - even if someone has done it to you.
J
2006-10-08 11:03:13 · answer #5 · answered by J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront him! and if he says he'll do anything for you then he should be able to stop flirting with other girls. if he doesn't stop then maybe it's time to think about letting him go.
2006-10-08 10:57:06 · answer #6 · answered by savexmyxmemory 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOSER ALERT! Girlfriend, this boy is bad news. You deserve better. You deserve REAL LOVE.
Are you giving him sex? If so, he will hang on to you until he finds some new plaything and you'll mean as much to him as dirty underwear. Want to keep on being his Gratification Machine? Or do you want REAL LOVE?
REAL LOVE is for life. A man who is offering REAL LOVE offers it with self-control, a ring, and a new last name. REAL LOVE is faithful and true. And it takes a REAL MAN to offer REAL LOVE.
Ditch him, don't let him use you. You were made for REAL LOVE. Wait until you find a man who is worthy, a man who will love you, and you alone, for LIFE. Wait for REAL LOVE!
2006-10-08 10:43:14 · answer #7 · answered by wise-woman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the more you show it bothers you the more he'll do it, maybe try some reverse pysch here ... flirt w/ guys in his face and see how he likes it, when he says he doesn't you can say .. well that's how i feel.
2006-10-08 10:34:59 · answer #8 · answered by emnari 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that u gave him chances to stop & he didn't so tell him its over! let him cry over it a while & he'll come back to u saying i will never do it again i promise & then maybe give him ONE more chance & thats it & tell him u'll give him 1 more chance & if u see him with ANY other girls than it's over forreal! hope i helped!! :)
PEACE**
2006-10-08 10:35:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him and go find yourself someone you can believe in that treats you with respect. If you gotta change em they won't be themselves and they will resent it later.
2006-10-08 10:36:50 · answer #10 · answered by Love is the principle thing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has low self-esteem and needs this attention. He does need to stop!!
2006-10-08 10:40:41 · answer #11 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋