My female friend that got burned inside her apartment (0.5 months ago), become friends with her 4 months ago. I find out that that girl have really nice personality. She asked me out. What do I do? I really like her personality but her face is *shivers*. I know that beauty is skin deep but we are talking about universally ugly. How about if you were to date someone for 3 years already and she recently got burnt inside her house, would you still date her???
2006-10-08 03:17:27 · 15 answers · asked by Salsa Dancer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just date her.
2006-10-08 04:17:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a funny way to put it, 0.5 months ago. If a month has 30 days then 0.5 months would be 15 days ago. So, you knew her before she got burnt. So if this just happened two weeks ago, she is still healing. Another thing. It took some courage for her to ask you out. She knows she is ugly. Apparently she judged you as a guy with some substance. Before she got burnt, what did you do together? Just continue doing that. Maybe the friendship will grow into something more and maybe not. I remember in College, I became friends with a very fat girl. Our friendship continued until she wanted more than friendship. I didn't, she did, so that was the end of the friendship. I liked her but she was not attractive to me. On the other hand I came to love a woman very much who had a disfigured face. So really, it depends on how old and mature you are; how much you love HER versus LIKE her. Above all be honest. Don't take advantage of her, even for a second. If she must be hurt, it is better now than later. Do right, my man. You may not really be the guy for her. Someone else may be waiting in the wings who isn't put off by her looks. Just make sure you treat her right.
2006-10-08 10:34:48 · answer #2 · answered by pshdsa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put yourself in her shoes -- would you want to date someone who, when he looks at you, gets the shivers in a bad way? Would you want to date someone who is at least in some way secretly appalled by your appearance? She deserves someone who isn't so put off by her burns that he finds he must ask a bunch of complete strangers on the internet whether or not he should tolerate her ugliness.
2006-10-08 10:21:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't date her because not personality is the only thing that counts. To have success when you date someone, you need to like his personality and even his appearance!! If you date her, you will soon hurt her and maybe even lose her as a friend!
2006-10-08 10:24:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a tough one but i think ultimately you have to go with your heart and not worry about what other people or what even your own ego tells you. I have learned to **** can mine and I am a much happier person because of it. So try to silence your thoughts and see what your inner being tells you it is the only real truth in this life.
2006-10-08 10:22:57 · answer #5 · answered by scottdavidkuehne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cared about her "that way", you could date her. Otherwise don't get her hopes up. Help her find someone else who WILL give her a chance....
2006-10-08 10:19:29 · answer #6 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I would still date my boyfriend if that happened. Its nothing she can help. Im sure she dont wanna look like that, and hopes that you would still like her. I mean, She didnt ask to look like that.
2006-10-08 10:19:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, i think that u might like her but not enough to say yes for her invitation and not to care about what other people would think when they will see you with her.
2006-10-08 10:23:02 · answer #8 · answered by mal_lam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
date her at least once and you ll see if you still like her or not
2006-10-08 10:20:26 · answer #9 · answered by miliscal123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead, date her. Its okay. By doing that, you also make her happy.
2006-10-08 10:19:58 · answer #10 · answered by Forward 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋