I been offered a job as an assistant club manager in london but my family don't want me to go it is a really good job and the training is all given on the job but they really want me to stay . My best friend a guy said if i went that he would move with me cos he can not stay here with out me but me and him is complicated i love him more than a friend and i have not told him this cos i know what he is like and i don't think he feels the same as me . he has a girlfriend and family up here so why does he want to be with me down in london i don't want to be the person that takes him away he has much more than me up here all i got is family a couple of friends and a job at tesco he has a job plays for 2 football teams family and girlfriend plus alot of family so i don't know why he wants to leave and come with me does it mean he wants us to be more as well or what should i tell him to stay and go alone . do u see my problem DO I STAY OR GO HELP!!!!!
2006-10-08 02:53:20 · 15 answers · asked by spud 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go.. you need to worry about your career sorry but your family should understand that money makes the world go round you should go where the money is at..let him follow you maybe some time apart from you will make him realize his feelings for you and soon follow...take the job
2006-10-08 03:16:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider all approaches to your acceptance of this new job, and you make up your mind as to what YOU want to do. You don't want any baggage with you do you? I think this guy wants a free tour of London at your expense. You have a life, be intelligent enough to live it. You must evaluate your situation and options and go from there. Good luck
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2006-10-08 09:56:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go. Stay. Assistant Club Manager? There is no future in that. Stay home and make a future here. All that glistens ain't gold honey.
2006-10-08 10:00:49 · answer #4 · answered by Love is the principle thing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off.... NEVER give up a job opportunity if it's what you really want and if it's okay with you if he comes, don't you think it's up to HIM whether or not he makes the change with you.You have two seperate issues here and they need to be dealt with seperately
2006-10-08 09:59:50 · answer #5 · answered by lyndles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too worried about HIS decision. Only he knows if he should stay or go. I say you should go to London, and let the rest fall in place.
2006-10-08 09:57:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this job is a great opportunity for you - you gotta go or you will regret it for the rest of your life. As for your friend - he needs to make his own decision. If he decides to go, you need to ask him why he would be going if you are "just friends." But ultimately it would be his decision as well. I would go!
2006-10-08 09:58:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anna F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Go i mean if you do end up having a relationship with him then you would be cheating on his girlfriend an that can lead to disaster
2006-10-08 09:57:12 · answer #8 · answered by Lespaul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better go and take this big break on your career. and with that, you will know better the true feelings of this guy has for you... Career opportunities comes once, if you miss this one, it won't come back to you... this guy can go to you anytime he wants... don't let this chance fly away...
2006-10-08 10:05:20 · answer #9 · answered by Raleigh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say go!!! and i would tell your friend how i feel about him. I would hate to look back on my life when i was 80 and think "what if?" this way you can say you know, i tried to live my life to the fullest and live according to my heart and without fear.
2006-10-08 10:02:09 · answer #10 · answered by kayro3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋