am 15, ma dad ran into me and my boyfriend kissing in a elevator, he seem alright with everything and didnt say anything about it but ever since he has been acting different... is it me or what do u think is happening?
2006-10-08 02:48:33 · 27 answers · asked by charmed4innocent 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
He probably can't handle the fact you are growing up, talk to him.
2006-10-08 02:49:52 · answer #1 · answered by psychoticgenius 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I can sympathise with this. My dad walked in on me and my bf doing much more than kissing and we couldn't look at each other for about a month!
It's hard for dads when their little girl starts growing up. He has spent all your life trying to protect you from the big bad world and now he's got to stand back and realise that you are becoming a woman and don't need him anymore.
He's probably a bit sad that his days of being your protector are over and is struggling to see you in a new light. He will get used to it in time - they all do - but til then just let him know you still love him and will always be his girl deep down.
2006-10-08 09:58:28 · answer #2 · answered by Fifi L'amour 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dads are very scared of their daughters growing up as we remember what boys were like at that age and some things never change.
My daughters are 17 and 14 and I have the same fears my son is 19 and I never felt protective of him about kissing when he was their ages .
It's a dad thing sorry but all dads are the same.
2006-10-08 09:59:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are worrying too much, Im sure if your father had a problem with it he would have told you at the time.
Maybe your reading too much into it yourself, or maybe he is acting different, after all his little girl is growing up. If its really worrying you that much though maybe you should talk to your dad about it if you have a good relationship with him.
2006-10-08 09:57:34 · answer #4 · answered by tassie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably didn't say anything because he didn't know how to handle the situation. But he's now aware of what you are doing and he's thinking about it & he's going to be watching you like a hawk.
2006-10-08 10:10:39 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your dad is excited that you have a boyfriend.
Or hes just scared that you might have your heartbroken if this doesnt work out.
Hes also sad that your growing up,i mean you were just a little girl,and now a teen.
2006-10-08 09:56:44 · answer #6 · answered by Mica Claro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he doesn`t know how to deal with it, so it might be best if you talked to him about it see if he is ok, but you are still his little girl and growing into a lady quick and he never thought about it before ok
2006-10-08 09:58:26 · answer #7 · answered by SADGIT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you spoken to him about this? It may be he is trying to deal with the fact that you are becoming a young woman, and not his little girl. Talk to him....he may not know how to start.
2006-10-09 13:34:40 · answer #8 · answered by doicu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh, Yes I can see it now, he is in shock honey, you are his little girl and all of a sudden he see's that you have grown up. approach him and give him one big hug you don't have to say anything he will suss that out. Take care honey.
2006-10-08 09:55:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I expect he's embarassed and its hard for him to face the fact you've grown up.
I think its one of those things to forget about, things will normalise soon enough.
2006-10-08 09:58:02 · answer #10 · answered by Trin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fathers are very protective of there daughters he may just be realising your growing up and he doesn’t want you to do it too fast.
2006-10-08 09:53:41 · answer #11 · answered by Ian S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋