Well I love this kid at school he makes me feel all wierd inside. I've known him since last year and I know a lot about him. Last year he asked me out and I didn't hear him well so I didn't say nothing. I knew because of my friend. I know that he likes me but am to scared to ask him out. Should I wait? Should I ask? Or what should I do?
2006-10-08 02:42:47 · 16 answers · asked by ~~~baby boo 4 life~~~~~~~~a.k.a 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best thing to do when it comes to relationships, is be honest.
Tell him how you feel, and if you cant do it in person, try passing him along a note in between classes....be hoenst, tell him you really like him, and that your happy when your around him, so you'd like it if you two were around each other more. Guys are SO CHICKEN! you dont understand, they need this little budge from the girl, for motivation. they dont like feeling rejected, and if the boy asked you out before and you said nothing, he probably felt a little odd and rejected. I would encourage you writting him a note, that way its less stressful on the both of you...at the bottom of the note, add in your telephone number and/or email address, and wait to see if he calls you...it might not be the same nite, and it might as well be. either way, your doing the right thing by letting him know you have feelings for him....the rest is in fate's hands...
I wish you luck! Its the best feeling in the world, I know.... :)
2006-10-08 02:48:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for what? it has been a year since he asked you out, but you didn't go out with him because of some sort of miscommunication. did he ask you out again? no, am i right? probably he thought you didn't like him. why don't you just ask him out. sometimes, you just have to do something to get what you really want and you wouldn't get it until you at least try.... give it your best shot... it's normal to feel scared, but be open to the possibility that he will turn you down, after all it has been a year!
2006-10-08 09:50:26 · answer #2 · answered by sapphire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly what you mean. I like this guy and he likes me too but im afriaid to ask him out. But we need to be bold, you already know what the answer is, so why be scard. I've been waiting a long time just hoping he'll ask me out, but if you truly love this guy dont wait any longer because it might be too late. Besides he'rs proably waiting for you to ask him because he's nervous too. A girl cant wait, but not forever!
Good Luck and tell me how it goes!
2006-10-08 10:25:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up to him and ask him if he asked you out at one time, that you never heard him, but a friend happened to bring it up in a conversation. Tell him if you knew and if it's true you would have certainly told him yes and does the offer still stand. Tell him that you were interested in him any how and hoped one day that he would ask you.....Good Luck !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-08 09:55:55 · answer #4 · answered by lisa b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is the answer to everything. All you ever need is love,
communication and understanding. That's what I figured out so
far. If you are down, you need to get up and start doing something with
your life. Don't need to be shy, be straight forward and allways say what
you want and expect from the others.
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2006-10-08 09:44:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hmm... well you can't love him if you haven't even gone out with him yet. He can still give you that butterflies feeling, but we in the adult world call that "lust" or "infatuation". Either way, there's nothing wrong with you talking to him and asking him out. That way you're not stuck wondering "what if..."
Good luck! :)
2006-10-08 09:48:11 · answer #6 · answered by Jemmie Vee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him out...or ask his friend to ask him if he still likes you. Then make a point to say Hi to him and look pretty for him and toss your hair when your around him. If he likes you, he will ask you out.
2006-10-08 09:47:56 · answer #7 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can you have a crush that you can love so much???
anyway ask him out girl
what makes you think you should wait?
2006-10-08 09:47:45 · answer #8 · answered by lynora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing as nice as someone who shares,
your laughter, your secrets, your wishes and cares,
someone who's there through your good times and tears,
who stays by your side as your friend through the years.
2006-10-08 09:44:26 · answer #9 · answered by raj the secret 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are u waiting for? Call him and ask him out!!! Take it or you'll miss it forever.
2006-10-08 09:46:44 · answer #10 · answered by falcon_lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋