I've known this guy for a little less than a month. My friend told me that he got out of a year long relationship with his girlfriend about 2 months ago because they got "bored" of each other. So, right now he's not looking for a serious relationship. However, we both seem to like each other (we've kissed, held hands, cuddled, etc.). The only problem is that we always go on double dates, so I never get the chance to know him on a more personal level. And, he hasn't given me any contact information. I'm also getting a lot of mixed messages from him. He'll be really nice to me, but then make comments about other girls (my friend told me that he was joking). Yet, I heard that he hasn't kissed any other girls since he kissed me. On Saturday I'll be leaving for a week because of my break. So, I wanted to know whether I should ask him where he thinks the relationship is going (I don't want to pressure him, though), or if I should just see what develops.
2006-10-08 02:41:54 · 12 answers · asked by Liz S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WELL IT IS THE MILLENNIUM AND I WOULD GO FOR IT ASK HIM OUT ON A DATE JUST THE 2 OF U AND WAIT AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS IT SOUNDS LIKE U ARE SEEING EACH OTHER! WAIT AND LET HIM DO THE ASKING OUT IF AND WHEN HE IS READY SINCE WITH HIM BEING IN A LONG RELATIONSHIP HE MAY WANT TO PLAY THE FIELD SO I WOULD WAIT AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS!
2006-10-08 02:49:52 · answer #1 · answered by hellokitty_19_2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-08 02:45:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait and see what happens.
This guy is clearly not looking for a serious relationship right now and being pushy is only going to drive him off.
Be patient, if its meant to be, he'll actually show more interest if you wait.
2006-10-08 02:45:05 · answer #3 · answered by baxterstuds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so how do you sense? you like him? if definite then ask him out. If no longer then meet yet another guy. He sound like he such as you yet he sound like a guy who do those factor to each female simply by fact he lack the capacity, adulthood and adventure with relationship. come to think of of it You sound like that too. seem relationship isn't fantastically much assembly the "appropriate guy". that's a social capacity to get use to the alternative intercourse. bypass on some date and you be gentle expressing your feeling
2016-12-13 04:17:23 · answer #4 · answered by marianna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep doing the double date thing...he might want something more than that but it has to come from him. You dont want to be called the rebound girl do you?
2006-10-08 02:45:55 · answer #5 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just tell him before you leave that you like him and are interested in getting to know him better.
Then tell him you'd like his answer when you get back after break.
That way he has time to think about it, and he knows how you feel.
2006-10-08 02:44:42 · answer #6 · answered by anabele6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him where he thinks the relationship is going. My thought is no where.
2006-10-08 02:46:12 · answer #7 · answered by nancy e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um tell him how you feel and be straight forward because rolling and strolling get strung along and thats how you get played.
2006-10-08 02:47:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe just leave a note asking him when your about to leave.
Its pretty much both.
Your asking him with a note.
While waiting so it can develope. =)
2006-10-08 02:45:14 · answer #9 · answered by Mica Claro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give him time, he's commitment shy at the moment by the sound of it...and stop listening to your friends...talk to him
2006-10-08 02:45:09 · answer #10 · answered by lyndles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋