I'm 13, so I don't know a whole lot about dating, but I really like this guy. I want to get to know him better, but I don't know how we'd get together. Like, what would I ask him? I get so nervous around him and I CAN'T stop thinking about him! I don't know if he likes me and I'm afraid to ask. I don't have much of a self esteem, so if I do as him out and he says no, my self esteem will take a beating! http://www.myspace.com/thekatesteinberg -Please look at all of the pictures. I have natural VERY curly long, brown hair and green eyes with a blue/purple ring around it. I don't consider myself too pretty or skinny. Do you think he might like me? My friend said he was flirting with me, but I don't believe her.
(I wrote that yesterday)
Well, two times I've had a dream about him and I really want to date him! I'm gonna go crazy or something. Haha I don't know what to do because I really couldn't take rejection!
2006-10-08 02:40:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, for one I think you are cute :)
And there is no need to not belive to your friend. He could flirt with you and from your picture I see he has all right to do ;P
I think he will like you personally.
You don't need to ask him out straight away. Get to know him, start talk to him more often. Start from just saying hi and then after a couple of weeks doing that you will have enough belif in yourself to talk to him or just say couple of sentences. Aftyer that just start flirt with him, give him different signs of attention and hints that you like him.
If you are at school together you can ask him what subjects he is taking, what are his hobbies etc. and go from there. Like if he likes football you could ask him what team he likes, best player etc. etc.
If he likes movies ask him how often go to the cinema and what last film he watched. When you get to know him better you will not have a problem in finding what to talk about.
As I said start saying hi to him at first and then you will get your confidence over time talk to him properly. Don't be afraid of him, he probably as nervous as you are if he likes you.
Hope that helps a little bit, Wolfy.
P.S. Just be yourself but be careful if it will happen at school you could dislike going to school if the relationship will not work out.
2006-10-08 02:56:47 · answer #1 · answered by lone_wolf_time_to_change 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well instead of u asking him, mayb u could let 1 of ur friends ask him for ya. You should get to kno him sum more, n since u can't go up to him by yourself, den u should have a friend wit u, a trusted friend, that u kno who wouldn't take ur man away. Don't forget you can always write him a note, or email him if u have his email address.
2006-10-08 09:47:40 · answer #2 · answered by xxMiizzCxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you're going insane.
Take rejection, kid, because ya know what? The whole world's about getting rejected and watching others getting accepted...except when you find a stroke of luck, is when you get accepted at long, hard-earned last. Just ask him, and not us!!!!!! >.<
2006-10-09 11:37:37 · answer #3 · answered by Display Name 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-08 09:46:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
~Like a Squirl you have to take a leap of faith...if the squirl stayed in the same tree all its life it would not be happy or have enough food for the winter...so it has to take a leap of faith to the next tree..never wondering what would happen if it fell to the ground the squirl leaps..again and again..if it would fall to the ground it would get up and make that leap again..because God did not make squirls to stay in one tree..You have to find strength in yourself to make the leap of faith...Life is hard and you might fall to the ground sereral times but it will only make you a better leaper..~~~> ;o}
2006-10-08 09:49:00 · answer #5 · answered by dreamzzz102 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try to get his attention by eye contact every chance I have and just show him how fun you are so he notices you and then he will approach you. Since you are to shy to ask him out.
2006-10-08 09:50:33 · answer #6 · answered by weekender 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey
well.. i'm a guy and ur pretty cute. if ur friend said he was flriting with u just go talk to him. ur young there are plenty of guys. i'm sure he won't say no. start talking to him more and get to know each-other ur 13... Good Luck!
2006-10-08 09:44:59 · answer #7 · answered by Sam A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about boys until you are at least 16. Until then, enjoy being a kid, have fun, hang out with your friends etc.
2006-10-08 09:42:57 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ask my friend Thanhly she knows alot about dating
2006-10-08 09:43:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey chill...ask him out.....lets see what's gonna happen.
none of us like to be rejected & thats mostly our gr8est fear...
you gotta get over that...be proud of who u are
good luck kate
2006-10-08 10:13:22 · answer #10 · answered by lynora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋