2006-10-08 02:32:40 · 14 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know for me I do not try to control anything!
2006-10-08 02:34:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to control her behaviour / responses, or your own.
Actually it does'nt matter which, because if you want any kind of meaningfull relationship to result, then be your own good self - if you pretend you are something you are not, how long do you think it will be before the truth comes out?
Be courteous and attentive to her - and if she's interested in you, it is likely that she will treat you in like manner.
Smiles and good humour (not too much silly stuff tho) are always useful.
Be a mix of a good listener (to appreciate her interests) and be prepared to outline your interests too (outline - dont go on and on bout them lol)- if she is interested in your interests, she will ask you to tell her more.
Listen to what she is saying, and express interest in her interests, ask about them (but do not pry).
Nobody really controls in such interactions - they flow naturally, if one or the other of you seeks to control or dominate, your probably not too compatible anyway.
Good luck (to you both).
2006-10-08 09:55:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to?
Let women get on with what they get on with!
When they want to do something you don't want to do or for them to do tell them firmly and stick to it.
If they carry on either leave them or sanction out punishment in the form of doing things they don't like. Such as the silent treatment or going out with the lads.
Really you should be looking to form a partnership and not ruling the roost .
You should take the lead when in your zone of expertise and follow when in hers.
If you can't discuss an issue your with the wrong girl.
Alternately - Cold showers help!
2006-10-08 09:56:15 · answer #3 · answered by Aerroc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a fantastic question m8. I don`t know which way are you thinking but honestly, women is like a magnet for men and vice versa. So it is very difficult to stay controlled by yourelf.
2006-10-08 09:39:44 · answer #4 · answered by Nelson S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a tommy tank before you go out to get rid of some of theose hormones flowing round your body!
2006-10-08 09:34:34 · answer #5 · answered by Andy C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from the amount of posts you have put about women - do you want us to live your life for you? or are you gonna get a backbone and work things out for yourself??
2006-10-08 09:35:45 · answer #6 · answered by cleo55 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont you know dear? WOMEN are always in control!! LOL
2006-10-08 09:34:28 · answer #7 · answered by pebs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what sorta control we talking about pal
2006-10-08 09:35:09 · answer #8 · answered by lyndles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to come in yer pants
2006-10-08 09:34:17 · answer #9 · answered by Warlock Fiend 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first see... wheather she wnats u to control or not.
2006-10-08 09:43:36 · answer #10 · answered by shishir_sriv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋