i get nervous always and i have very low confidence?

Question

i have no discipline

Answer 1

When I was young I also used to get very nervous and also had very low self-confidence. As I grew older, I started believing in myself and you know what it changed my life. I started believing that if there is something that others can do then I can as well. Often we get nervous because we don't know how others will react if we say something or do something. But remember that all great people in history had got nervous at some point or the other in their life
As far as discipline is concerned, that is one thing that you should not dispense with, if you want to be successful in life. No matter which field it is that you are looking to do well, discipline is required everywhere.

Answer 2

You are not alone in regards to having a low self esteem. Take care of yourself and build up your self esteem and you will naturally have more self control. Always remember you are a person of worth and you are special and unique.

You may not realize it, but it's 100% true.


1. There are at least two people in this world that you would die for.


2. At least 15 people in this world love you in some way.


3. The only reason anyone would ever hate you is because they want to be just like you.


4. A smile from you can bring happiness to anyone, even if they don't like you.


5. Every night, SOMEONE thinks about you before they go to sleep.

6. You mean the world to someone.


7. You are special and unique.


8. Someone that you don't even know exists loves you.


9. When you make the biggest mistake ever, something good comes from it.


10. When you think the world has turned its back on you take another look.


11. Always remember the compliments you received. Forget about the rude remarks.

Answer 3

The only way to get rid of very low condifence is to start acting like you have very high confidence.

Come on, this is your life, not a dress rehearsal, you can't spend your whole life on the side lines, wondering what it will be like to have confidence, practice at it.

Start with joining small groups, that force you to talk, and talk about yourself, volunteer, look in the mirror each day and find something nice to say about yourself.

Write your favorite quotes about confidence down on a piece of paper and put it places where you can read it daily.

Good luck!
And Good Confidence.

Answer 4

Even i get nervous when i have to do some thing new. So never think that its a negative part on your side. I feel that you are in a learning process. Hence take it as a tr. period. Chill an dnever concentrate on what you do not have. start thinking about your assets and i am sure you will be a confident person.

Answer 5

Well... learn a discipline.... talk to yourself about how great learning this skill is going to be and how well your going to do at it and how fun its going to be. Try and become skilled at something this will bring up your confidence level. Volunteer. Write down ten things you like about yourself and build some nutureing confidence from these.

Answer 6

See your Dr. about meds for nervousness. That would allow you to get out more and increase your self confidence. Worked for me.the med I take is Ativan. But other chioces your Dr. might try are Buspar or Zanax. Be careful! These meds can be addictive if not taken exactly as prescibed.

Answer 7

Do you have someone at home who verbally (or physically) beats you down? If so, do whatever you can to get away! Many times, an abusive person at home makes it nearly impossible for us to go out into life and perform our best. Counseling may help - give it a try.

Answer 8

u please try to do meditation so that u can avoid stress, easy work environment and feel free with every one. I think u r getting nervous due to "vulgur age wants vulgur amusements". so let to avoid every think of ur mind things go wrong but don't go with them.

may god bless u every moment for ur good future. avoid loose talk, think 100 times positive rather than one time negative so that ur confidence may get strong.

have a nice day.

all the best.

raghu.

Answer 9

believe in yourself , have conidence in the work u do, work hard.
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Answer 10

b optimist...develop a habit..of listening to gud n elders...discipline ll automatically...weave ur character...think n do better jobs..which fetch u success...n ur self esteem..seems 2 take a step ahead...bye all d best!!!