i got a soft spot 4 handsome men...i'm in love wit ma b/f but i keep kissin other guys coz i can't turn dem down....i think i'm heartless or is it normal...
2006-10-08 01:37:00 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In my opinion, you have low self-esteem and kiss these blokes because you get a kick from knowing that handsome men want you. It won't make you feel any better about yourself in the long run and you'll end up feeling guilty and ashamed.
It's normal to find other people attractive but it is heartless to cheat on someone you claim to love. You either need to speak to your boyfriend and ask him to show you more attention so you don't need other men, or you need to finish with him and THEN go off looking for handsome men to kiss.
Your bf will be heartbroken and/or annoyed when he finds out what you've been up to. How would you feel if he kissed beautiful girls cos he couldn't say no?
2006-10-08 02:52:30 · answer #1 · answered by Fifi L'amour 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-04 09:54:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't class it as normal. If you are committed to one person you should not be kissing other people at all. If you continue you will eventually get a bad reputation and probably end up rejected by most guys. I used to have a female friend who was the same way and for a time she was very popular with guys. As soon as the guys realised that she wouldn't commit to anyone they soon backed off as the fun was over. She is still single as far as I know and has been for about five years.
2006-10-08 01:47:24 · answer #3 · answered by SR13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you a Leo? You obviously know what your doing is wrong.There's nothing wrong with a bit of flirting but why do you have to kiss them? I understand that being chatted up by a good looking man is fab for your ego but how would your boyfriend take it if he knew you were kissing them especialy as you are meant to love him. Is it alcohol removing your barriers? If so drink less if you wanna keep your man. Also, how do you face him the next day? I would feel awful!
2006-10-08 01:42:48 · answer #4 · answered by TashaLou1978 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask yourself why you can't say no. My GUESS is that you don't think you're attractive, so attention from attractive men makes you feel better about yourself. You should really examine how you feel about yourself (draw pictures and write lists), then prepare a self improvement plan, and finally implement and monitor it. This kissing other guys BS will fade away.
2006-10-08 01:43:07 · answer #5 · answered by Answers1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you find it impossible to be true to your boyfriend, then, that tells me you are not ready for a steady relationship. Don't keep leading the boyfriend on. You are only gonna hurt him worse.Break up with him and find yourself. You don't say how old you are, but, maybe some counseling will help. You need to learn that its OK to say no. Respect yourself.
2006-10-08 01:51:37 · answer #6 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to take a break from your boyfriend so you can continue to snog with these other guys. Until you can learn to be faithful you aren't deserving and you are leading on these other guys.
2006-10-08 01:39:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are being superficial looks are just looks sure they r what attracts ya to people but dig deep. how would u like it if your bf starts hittin on all the hotties would you feel jealous think of him if its worth anything otherwise dont commit
2006-10-08 01:41:38 · answer #8 · answered by phishmelon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not normal, a little heartless.
your poor boyfriend, i feel sorry for him.
you could turn them down if you really wanted, it's just that you don't want to.
2006-10-08 01:39:41 · answer #9 · answered by shortcake 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If u are like that then break up with ur B/F and hang out with other guys
2006-10-08 01:56:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋