after the second date(but you see him every work day), is this the sign or a player? clingy guy? would you be worried or excited?
2006-10-08 01:21:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on how you feel about a guy.
I can tell you that it would make me nervous after only the second date, depending on what he's saying. If he's saying he wants to marry you or talks about something the two of you could attend that is 6 months away, I'd be nervous.
If he is talking about something that is only a week away, then I'd be excited.
Either way I'd play it slow if you aren't the clingy type.
2006-10-08 01:24:27 · answer #1 · answered by anabele6 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The rules of the second date usually do not apply if you see him every day. There is a familiar component about seeing someone everyday. He is no stranger. Hopefully after the second date, you have made your mind up on wither or not your interested. You have seen him at work and in a casual setting so you have seen more sides to his personality than most. He talks about the future, because he is trying to find out what you think without asking. He wants to know if you are dating him for entertainment purposes only or if you could actually consider him as a contender for your affections.
2006-10-08 01:32:32 · answer #2 · answered by Mr Cellophane 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Really depends on how well you two knew each other to begin with. If you two were close before you started dating, I don't see alot wrong, but if you two really didn't know each outher well, and he's already discussing the future after 2 dates, I would run like hell cause he is way to clingy.
2006-10-08 01:26:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy makes plans after the second date, i'd say he's the clingy type. Watch out, those guys are annoying!
2006-10-08 01:25:55 · answer #4 · answered by Jane D 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its hard to be sure as I dont know him, think about what the dates were like and take it from there, and think about what he means by the future. If the dates went well and you really connected but he is talking about marriage just ask him to slow down. It probably has connections with past relationships where he went to slow and lost somebody he thought he loved because of it. It is probably just his way of trying not to lose you because he really likes you. Hope this helps.
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2006-10-08 01:27:08 · answer #5 · answered by porta_custos 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him this is just dating not to make to many future plans. Also may help to tell him in case he don't know that this is not just his time that you are able to still see who you want and date others when you wish.
2006-10-08 01:27:56 · answer #6 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sure.
2006-10-08 01:24:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i guess its a sign, but I really don't kno wat you are talking about.
2006-10-08 01:24:59 · answer #8 · answered by Light in the Dark 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
oh no, not you again...you suck!
2006-10-08 01:23:23 · answer #9 · answered by Mystery Guest 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋