Years ago when I was a single young man of 27 years old, I was dating an older woman of 35. It was mostly a 'physical' relationship.
She had a daughter of age 15.
Before long, the daughter started showing up at my work,
calling me on the phone, and even coming by my apartment at
all hours.
I was scared. This was truly a jailbait situation.
But I am and still was curious...What did she actually want?
Just sex?
To strike back at her mother?
A father figure?
Something I havent thought of yet?
Nothing ever happened between me and the teener, but I always
wondered what this was all about.
Any speculations?
2006-10-08 00:32:04 · 10 answers · asked by hls 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yikes.. .she was definitely competing. Kudos to you for avoiding a jailbait situation lol. I think you knew all along what she really wanted... there's nothing innocent about that... trust me.
2006-10-08 00:35:35 · answer #1 · answered by Jemmie Vee 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Anyone would tell you she wants a loving father figure and a good realtionship, this, as i am here to tell you, is complete and utter bull*censesored* She either wanted revenge on her mom hated you and wanted you to break up with her mom so she was buggin you all the time or she thought you were cute and wanted sex, I'm not completly sure but i am almost posistive that its not that she wants a father figure, me being a teen hate it wen on date line or wat ever say "teens just want to be loved and hugged real close and a cut on their alowsnse for their parents savings" Its tottally oposite, we cannnot be classified as kind evil mean or giving, because we are all different, we are not an animal that has the same instincts thro everyone but the one thing we do share in common is that parental figures are the furthest from our minds.
2006-10-08 00:40:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
trying to do like her mother to show to herself that she is grown up. If that is what mom is doing then it is ok for me to do to kind of thing. She knew you threw her mother and you were just the target of this. I have a few friends and my children sometimes try to act like they are thier friends too even though the hardly know the people. You can look at the bright side and say at least you were on the daughters good list and not one she did not approve of her mom seeing. Then a trip to see you at home and who knows what would've been claimed.
2006-10-08 00:40:49 · answer #3 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she wants a father figure. Maybe she is having a problem with her mother and so has noone to talk to and maybe she came to you. Look at it in a positive way as noone will try to get their mother's man
2006-10-08 00:39:51 · answer #4 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Years ago....there was a lustful 27yr old whose thoughts about his girlfriends daughter were so impure. These lustful thoughts turned into imaginary fantasy and to his surprize he was believing his fantasy........He wanted it to be more because his dreams were so vivid and impure.....REALTY awakened him and he was just sitting in his office amongst all his paperwork with nothing more to look at but the FAT ugly clerk!
WAKE UP dude....you're living life now and boy you sure exaggerated your fantasy island story!
2006-10-08 00:45:03 · answer #5 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i want to say how wonderful a man you are and i do mean man.not many men would have passed up that chance to get that. good for you.what a guy. there's nothing wrong with wondering,that's pretty normal,but i just think you are truly special for passing up on her.
2006-10-08 00:36:51 · answer #6 · answered by punkin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how do you know shes even thinking sex at all , maybe she just wants to be around you , like hang out , ever think of that?
2006-10-08 00:38:56 · answer #7 · answered by jojo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she wants to know you as a stepfather
2006-10-08 00:35:59 · answer #8 · answered by ##$SoulStryker$## 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you KNOW exactly what that was about :))
2006-10-08 00:38:30 · answer #9 · answered by hhgdgdfg 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are in need of help.we know what you wanted dont we?
2006-10-08 00:36:13 · answer #10 · answered by porkchophaynes0206 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋