my best friend is really upset .her mother ,husband and father died in october ie same month. how should i console her?
2006-10-08 00:19:18 · 10 answers · asked by ? 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Just be a friend. There is not a huge amount you can really say to her to make her feel better apart from being there to be her friend and comfort her when she needs it.
2006-10-08 00:20:48 · answer #1 · answered by Raide UK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her as much time as you possibly can. Support with realism is the best cure.
2006-10-08 07:23:52 · answer #2 · answered by Sweet Dragon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend most of your time with her and let her know that there is time for everything.
2006-10-08 07:31:24 · answer #3 · answered by patrick w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's terrible. Offer to get her things and let her have time by herself and her siblings.
2006-10-08 07:21:26 · answer #4 · answered by Prudens 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Spend a lot of time with her
2006-10-08 07:21:04 · answer #5 · answered by dionysus26047 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that illness, worries and tragedy is a part of what it is to be human, and living with this concept is what makes us more human. i have faced worse in life
2006-10-08 07:27:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be there for your friend whenever she wants to talk, even if you cannot give good answers, just sit down with her and listen.
2006-10-08 07:26:15 · answer #7 · answered by neshama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her to church and let her know if she can make it to heaven she will see them again.
2006-10-08 07:20:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
with Love
2006-10-08 07:20:04 · answer #9 · answered by I give you the Glory Father ! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take some time to be with her.
Take her to lunch. take her to a move. Go and visit her, invite her over.
Let her grieve, she needs to. If she wants to cry, let her, if she wants to yell, let her. If she wants to push you away, come back....
2006-10-08 08:01:54 · answer #10 · answered by Miss Vicki 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋