they are now broken up and ne and her have been good friends for a short while. he likes me and i like him but everytime i try to talk to him she plays all these little games and he obviously goes to comfort her. i have talked to her and she says she couldn't see us together but at the same time she doesnt want to get back together with him. and as long as shes controlling him i stand no chance. what to do?
2006-10-08 00:12:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
confront the girl who is playing all the games, and tell her straight up that you and the guy have feelings for eachother and that she should just let go. Then tell the guy that she is just trying to mess with him, if he doesn't believe you, and the other girl really thinks that she should just let go then she will tell him herself or just leave you both alone, best of luck on whatever you choose to do.
2006-10-08 00:28:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What should you do move on they still want each other. They both still have feelings for each other. Why would you want to be with this guy that was just in a relationship with your friend? If he didnt care about her he wouldnt try to comfort her . You might be in this triangle by yourself.He might have came on to you to make her jealous. You do hang out with her right? I am sure she has said she didnt want him back to protect her feelings.Are you being her friend just to get next to him? This female trusted you enough to have her boyfriend around you but you cant be trusted.Just because things didnt work out with them now you both think that is a good idea to be together. Neither one of you thought about how this effects her ?
2006-10-08 01:11:30 · answer #2 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even though it might be a tuff thing to do make him choose! i mean if he wants to stay with her than why did he even start with you!! be blunt thats the way to be now and days why be shy!! tell it like it is we only live once and if he doesnt choose you than move on there is plenty of people out there. and why make you wait for him!!
2006-10-08 00:36:10 · answer #3 · answered by GABRIEL D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he must still have feelings for her to keep going back to her like that. but if you try to date him consider your friendship with her over. if you choose her stay only friends with him. if you choose him though try talking to him about her. tell him how she feels about him and that she is playing games with him to keep him near so he doesnt find someone else. the choise is yours to make.
2006-10-08 00:31:45 · answer #4 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say make a move, this girl seems to want to have her cake and eat it to. Look he'll know the difference between a good one and her.
2006-10-08 00:17:38 · answer #5 · answered by Redhead with love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is a good friend go to her and ask do she mind if you date her ex.if she says no then end the friendship,but she will already know that you and her ex are a couple.I had a friend who wanted to date my ex I told her to go ahead I didn't want him back.they didn't last that long and we still have our friendship.
2006-10-08 00:25:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
decide who's more important to you - she's not going to be friends with you if you choose to be with her ex, and her ex won't hang around forever waiting for you. Decide and understand that you'll probably lose one of them.
2006-10-08 00:16:15 · answer #7 · answered by shortcake 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never go after your best friends Ex!!!!
2006-10-08 00:17:15 · answer #8 · answered by twoshotjudy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
twos company, three are grounds for devorce
2006-10-08 00:22:55 · answer #9 · answered by used1goods 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋