i have a spanking fetish...always have, is that wrong?what does god think about it?
2006-10-07 23:50:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
given like punishment
it really turns me on.....is that wrong...what if i just need a spanking and my gf wont/cant do it?is it wrong to find someone who will....not sexual just for punishment keep me in line
2006-10-08 00:16:50 · update #1
Absolutely nothing wrong with liking a good spanking!
2006-10-08 00:01:43 · answer #1 · answered by lynnca1972 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a conservative Christian husband, and I like having my wife spank me. I'm one of those who believes that anything sexual is intended for a monogamous marriage relationship. If no real harm is done and both spouses are willing, I don't see any problems with this type of intimate sharing. A good spanking can be another way to share the nakedness of marriage intimacy for those so inclined, regardless of which spouse is temporarily without clothes and receiving the fanny warming. For us this is a briefly pleasant yet uncomfortable diversion (quite the oxymoron) into family role reversal for arousing reasons, not a surrender of the family leadership position. Within the marriage relationship, mutually pleasing the spouse's erotic desires is Biblical. I don't think the particular form of consensual sexual intimacy, assuming nothing harmful or degrading, is particularly important.
2006-10-10 18:53:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you believe God created you, then presumably he/she/it created you with a spanking fetish. As for what the Bible says, as far as I recall it's quite in favour of corporal punishment (and most other sorts, come to that), but doesn't say a word about people who get off on giving or receiving it.
As for finding someone to spank you non-sexually - well, two possible problems there. First off, your g/f may be none too keen on the idea; and second, it may be harder than you think to keep it strictly non-sexual. You're almost certainly going to be turned on by being spanked, and quite probably the person who's spanking you will find it a turn-on too. The ideal, if she'll agree to it, might be to get yourself spanked only in the presence of your g/f. And who knows, that might even encourage her to try spanking you herself?
2006-10-08 02:20:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no mention I am aware of. I like to be the spanker (never actually found a willing participant so no deeds), do you think that somehow violates the turn the other cheek rule which it seems to me indicates you might get extra points for your fetish. I only like to spank girls so maybe my ideas are OK too
2006-10-08 18:08:42 · answer #4 · answered by icheeknows 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as it is with you spouse go for it
2006-10-07 23:56:27 · answer #5 · answered by snuggels102 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋