Okay guys....how do you view women with "issues" (health problems, emotional crap, depression, etc) viewed? More specifically,
what about women that are trying very hard to work through their issues, rather than allow the problems to run their lives? Would you stop dating or persuing a woman who opened up and talked about it honestly? Are women with conditions either physical or emotional viewed as unlovable and undatable? Any serious thoughts on this would be highly appreciated. Thanks in advance!
2006-10-07 21:36:31 · 8 answers · asked by neenerneener 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Guys and girls both want someone who will be a strong co-parent, able to give and solve endlessly and selflessly in the raising of the next generation, not someone who's going to disintegrate in a flood of self-pity at the first difficulty. Nevertheless, people who have "issues" may be interesting to meet along the way, and sometimes the supposed "issues" are just trivia that disappear as soon as a serious purpose materialises, so not undatable, but on a warning not to be so self-preoccupied.
2006-10-07 22:45:23 · answer #1 · answered by Sangmo 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Based on my personal experience I feel they are far better than normal girls who take away our lives,they can be handled very easily and there can be a true love on the girl because basically we can view them as a child and try and make them happy.there is very low expectations between the two.Their activities dont hurt u because it isn't intentional.I would live a very happy life with such a girl.
2006-10-07 21:46:57 · answer #2 · answered by shiva 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My husband hates my emotional issues. He thinks they are not valid and shouldn't exist in the first place. He feels that by having issues, ultimately I'm exspressing my un-love to him. He says if I loved him I woulnd't ever feel unhappy. Some men fall for weakness in us because it makes them feel strong, but in reality all they want is a strong working horce, or a good company, any way you like it.
2006-10-07 22:17:40 · answer #3 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
We all have issues for lack of a better term. The fact that she's willing to work on the problems is a plus everyone advances at there own rate.Give her time and see what tomorrow brings...
2006-10-07 21:47:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Hypocrisy of society. because society is principally ruled by heterosexual adult men (usually homophobes) the belief of a gay guy being with yet another guy disturbs them. or maybe the belief of a guy showing the slightest pastime in something it is supposedly "for women" (which includes looking after your pores and skin- nevertheless it is medically counseled) is seen "gay", nevertheless maximum gay adult men are literally, masculine and virtually none of stereotypes ,that media each and every so often exaggerate, prepare to gay adult men. they do no longer understand that a "gay guy" is a guy or woman who's sexually attracted in direction of individuals of an analogous intercourse, and not something, no strings related. each and every gay guy or woman is different type the different. And at present, you will pay attention some immature adolescents/ adults use "it truly is so gay" to recommend "it truly is so lame". it quite is in basic terms the society we are residing in, showing attractiveness in direction of lesbian women because of the fact "it is warm" (I never heard somebody say "it truly is so lesbian!") and push aside gay adult men (masculine or no longer) because of the fact it grosses them out for some reason.
2016-10-15 23:20:51 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are more sensitive than women and with peer pressure they keep how they feel to their-selves. Women are just more open about issues.
2006-10-07 21:39:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
They need to cut back on their daily intake of Korn.
2006-10-07 21:45:22 · answer #7 · answered by B 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'd keep well away from anyone with ''issues'' man or woman
2006-10-07 21:44:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋