okay...I've know this guy for 10 years,,,well We love each other truely and he's way too old for me but, I love him to death....And I can't tell my family but, we want to be together..no matter what...But what if i get caught goingout with him, I'm mean we are goingout but i don't want him to be put in jail..or anything, but we want ot be togather..What should I do...and we can't wait any longer to be together we already waited 10 years to be together???
2006-10-07 20:25:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My boyfriend is 20 and i'm 16
2006-10-07 20:29:39 · update #1
well, if he's 20 and your 16 then thats not a problem. because if ur sure thats true love then you will have to wait. cause believe me it'll be worth it! and besides you waited 10 years so you can wait 2 extra years it wont make any difference. so try to consintrae on you studies and go out with him infront of your parents as if your just friends with him... and believe me things will work out the way you want them to be... if u know your parents will react in way you wont like it. then DONT TELL THEM NOW! if you did, they might make your life difficult for your age... good luck.
2006-10-07 20:39:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is true love then you have to be ready to deal with the consiquences. Going out with him is probably not the best thing because if you are a minor and he is ten years older than you he will get along time in prison(especially if yall are having sex). So you might want to consider waiting a little while longer. Or at least be smart about how you broadcast your relationship.
2006-10-07 20:44:58 · answer #2 · answered by Duece Daily 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only reason he would go to jail is if you were under 18 and things happened. If you love him that much, wait till your old enough. It is not worth it truly to risk ruining both your lives if you are caught.
2006-10-07 20:33:09 · answer #3 · answered by fortuitousoppty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
details, whats the ages and age difference? OK, that's not too bad. If you trust your parents then maybe you should have a talk with them. If theres no sex involved or anything else that u shouldn't be doing then i dont see a problem. If you do talk with the folks about it then u need to stress the fact that theres no sex.........good luck
2006-10-07 20:29:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
jesus christ how old are you if he can be put in jail!!!??? Sounds a bit dodgy to me...
You've waited 10 years to be with someone but if your parents find out your going out he could go to jail?? You must have been six when you met.
Wait another 10 years...
2006-10-07 20:28:38 · answer #5 · answered by vinyl_mad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy is an adult and you are a minor he is a sicko.He should not be touching you he should be put in jail.You will regret it later in life.Truthfully jail is to good for this sick man.
2006-10-07 20:34:02 · answer #6 · answered by lovely soul with insite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have told us how old you are but anyway in most countries i know you can date someone older but if your under legal age dont have sex and he wont go to jail.
2006-10-07 20:37:57 · answer #7 · answered by john h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to add some details. it's hard to get what you are saying when we don't even know the age of u and ur boyfriend.
2006-10-07 20:28:17 · answer #8 · answered by lalalalala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
waiting 2 more years won't be such a big deal after waiting 10---VERY WRONG
2006-10-07 20:36:06 · answer #9 · answered by phyllis_neel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a piece of SH1T. If I knew where you both lived I'd kick his butt and keep you far away from him.
2006-10-07 20:26:46 · answer #10 · answered by Bellina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋