why would you say that older marrid men flirt with younger women?

Question

do you possibly think that they are feeling old and want to see if they still have it? or is their relationship dull, because their wife is old also? there is an older guy like old enough to be my dad old .. flirting w/ me and i just wonder why they do it? why do YOU think?

Answer 1

part of it is forgetting your age. the body may age but the mind never does. You see some one that is pretty, beautiful, or cute it is comman nature to be atractive to it. And yes we want to think he still have something left even though we down deep know we don't. Also it's the excitement that younger people live with. If older people went out and did what the younger people do we would get locked up (for our on good). The mind needs stimulatent and with older people you get naps younger people are always on the go and we miss that.
also we want to be noticed not some old guy stuck in the corner because we aged. I myself still think about doing the things I did as a kid and miss it but who my age would be willing to do those things. no one, but the younger people would cause it's fun and silly. Old people are thought to not be fun and silly.
and last but not least yes is about sex. no better boost to the ego than to have some young girl like you or better think your sexy. everyone is looking for a shot to the ego once in awhile. and look at the ladies my age to many of them look like my mother. Sorry to say but they didn't age well. I didn't either but for most they don't think I am as old as I am.

Answer 2

At 58 and going down fast, I seem to be noticing the young and pretty ones allot. I wonder about that, and I think it is basically inside, in our head we feel the same, we are still like were were at 24, and outside we are not. I think we get to a point where we miss our youth. Where we look at where we are going, at what seems to be ever increasing speed, with ever shorter days, and then we look back and we miss that. One thing I just don't agree with is when younger people refer to an older guy who checks out a girl as a 'Pervert" this just isn't the case. Perversion is not the case. Most of these are just plain and simple ordinary guys like you'd see in a bar, on the football field, in High School, except they are JUST OLDER.

Answer 3

I used to be an attractive 22 year old male bartender in an upscale restuarant (they used to squeal "is that matt damon?"), and found out older women can be just as bad, if not worse than men. I would serve a group of 40+ ladies at the bar, while the husbands were playing golf, and I would get verbally raped on a nightly basis. Don't think for a second that older men are the ones to blame. A bunch of bored housewives can be even worse than a bunch of older dudes. It goes both ways. I got offer after offer from the older ladies, from taking off my shirt to going home with them, women aren't Saints. Older women are just as bad, if not worse than older men. You just happen to be an attractive female that older men hit on, just like I am an attractive male that older women like to hit on. It's hard being wickedly good looking, just get used to it.

Answer 4

They do it because it makes them feel like they still got it.
It makes them feel young and viral.

For those of you who are young...it might be hard to believe, but when you get old you are actually the same person that you are now. So maybe the guy flirts cuz he has alwahghys flirted.

I am 56 and although my body is older...my spirit is still mine...I am the same person. You young ones won't understand that until you are older.

Answer 5

I am 40 and was married to a 33 year old woman, Made me feel young authough the marriage only lasted 3 months before I realized she was a Gold Digger, However the answer is it makes us feel younger and a sense of confidence

Answer 6

Because younger women are a challenge to older men and if they are handsome and hold a good position in life they usually succeed. Obviously, a twenty something is more attractive than a fifty something unless you are a Sharon Stone. If he is rich enjoy him, if not dump him!

Answer 7

their wife is not obeying or satisfying their sex cravings and some wants to go out for excitement by going for younger girls.

younger girls have nicer bodies, are more easier to please, more ignorant as they might feel good that a more mature guy is attracted to 'little old me'. also, younger people are easier to please when older men have more experiences in getting their sex drives up and going than younger guys. and so.. older undecent guys will see young girls as easy.

Answer 8

mid-life crisis, they just wants to feel young again. I wouldnt mind if an older women flirted with me, well they do and its very flatering. You should feel the same.

Answer 9

wotever it is honey they all do it
as women we gotta accept that thats just the way a man is
so wen ur guy does it, dont take it personally but let him have just a lil fun, all the while keeping it under control, as long as he goes home with you

Answer 10

you are as young as the women you feel.

so they say...

really though, all men, of any age, look at women, of any age. I guess the Q relates to really old guys looking at the memories they have, when they look at young girls...

those were the days...