im 16 and almost turning17, and i know this girl for 2 years in my school. we talk and entertain each other.. but now its like different,, we started likeing each other for the past 2 weeks and were dating right now but somehow im kinda loosing interest of her.. its not like i don't like her, cuz i stil do, it just feels uninteresting.. its like so odd becuase last week or two i was like so desperate of her and i wanted to kiss her and hug her.. but like rigt now its different well not that different, i still want to do that, but not as much as i wanted it last time.. i want to make our relationship last longer.. any suggestion what i should do.. and any comment to tell me what the heck is going on, is this like normal or something...can kissing her on the lips make a difference >> pls help.. i posted this like 3 times now and i need suggestion and commnents from people experiences..
2006-10-07 20:16:37 · 5 answers · asked by mike s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your feelings will go up and down in a relationship. That is normal. Try not to worry so much. Relax and enjoy it. It's new, it's a little frightening, scarey, and fun!
http://www.teenrelationships.org
2006-10-07 20:21:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, actually there is not much you can do, for some reason you are not as interested in her as you were before, perhaps it is due to the thrill of the chase, when you didn't have her you wanted her now you have her, its not that exciting any more. Who knows? either way, you are so young I would say it is the right thing to do to not get serious about someone till you are out of school and college and have a good job etc. For now, just be honest with the girl and tell her how you feel and take it from there, she might be feeling exactly the same way and not be able to tell you !
2006-10-08 03:28:26 · answer #2 · answered by Pete 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on - that's what 'youth' is for. Finding out what fits, what feels right. Meet someone - hang out a bit. It feels right or it doesn't. Everyone is not right for us, and now is the time to find out for yourself what you want.
Suggestion: do not 'talk' yourself into someone. Instead, run - do not walk to the nearest exit. Perhaps the next one will be right! Good Luck! It's fun; keep goin!
2006-10-08 03:28:10 · answer #3 · answered by canyonview11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you lost interest in her i think you've just gotta let go of her then. i don't there's anything you could do to save it so maybe you should just end it and move on. i'm sorry if my advice is kinda stupid since i am only fifteen
2006-10-08 03:22:55 · answer #4 · answered by Cathy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probly cuz she is getting fugly now that u see her!!!just leave the hoe!!!
2006-10-08 03:20:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋