I really want them to like me cuz I love my bf very much. But when my bf is upset about me he talks about it with his friends and they think he should leave me-duh cuz they are always on my bf's side...but it makes me want to avoid his friends...
what should I do?
2006-10-07 19:46:47 · 9 answers · asked by angela 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him not to tell his friends only bout your fights .. butr tell them about u .. and how much he loves you abd how much u care for him
2006-10-07 19:51:21 · answer #1 · answered by mazen71j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if your boyfriend has a problem with you, he should be discussing it with you, not his friends. They apparently lack the ability to be objective, and he is probably giving only one side of the story...HIS side. Whether or not they like you is not important, and should never become an issue. And if it was me, the talking to the friends about problems in the relationship, it would have to stop. I hope he trusts and respects you enough in the future to keep what you do between the two of you and not make it public knowledge, because once he told his friends about his gripes with you, it was no longer private.
2006-10-07 19:51:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you enough , he wouldnt depend on his friends advises , i am sorry but your boyfriend is too immature ..
Have an individuality and go for it .. you know what you are be proud of it and dont let anyone else influence your boyfriends decisions .. tell it to him in a subtle but firm way !
If he agrees good , or else I bet you wouldnt regret your decision ! HAVE AN INDIVIDUALITY AND ATLEAST RESPECT URSELF FOR WHAT U R ..
Thats the bottom line !
2006-10-07 19:52:37 · answer #3 · answered by Beautiful Snowwhite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in simple terms be like hi do you prefer to bypass to a interest with me for my birthday? extra suitable than probably she would be in a position to not anticipate he's invited exceptionally in case you do not point out him in something. or you should assert you prefer to have a ladies evening out, and in simple terms invite a number of your close girlfriends. :) wish this facilitates!
2016-11-27 00:16:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriends friends don't like me either cause he spends more time with me.Try to find them girlfriends so they will leave you alone.Sooner or later they will get that you're not leaving and they will accept you and if not if your b/f loves you he won't listen to them.
2006-10-07 19:51:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
his friends are just paranoid of losing their friend to his girlfriend.in the long run you should win out and his friends that don't accept you,will slowly fade away
2006-10-07 19:51:51 · answer #6 · answered by jgmafb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just give your boyfriend space, just let him chill with his friends alone.
Maybe he'll start talking good about you, and don't let his friends get the best of you, if you love him then don't let them bug you
2006-10-07 19:51:11 · answer #7 · answered by ***dreamcatcher**** 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys will be boys.
2006-10-07 19:50:50 · answer #8 · answered by Noble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you don't know can hurt you.
2006-10-07 19:49:47 · answer #9 · answered by baddaboombaddabing 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋