Gosh! why do i like this guy???? I know he is just playing with me, he asked one girl to homecoming, then when she said no, he comes to me. he danced with me twice, and i was the only one he slowdanced with. He acts like he likes me, but then is likein love with my friend. All my friends dont like him, and today, when people asked me who i danced with, they all were really surprised and said i was too good for him. nobody wants me to go out with him, and im afraid that if i let myself like him, ill get hurt. So why if i dont want to like him, i still do?
What do i do????
2006-10-07 19:31:55 · 13 answers · asked by Katie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, if the guy is cute, sweet, gentle-hearted, smart, easy to talk to, gets along with perfectly, worth-dating...then don't hurt yourself. he might be the perfect guy for you.
But, if everyone thinks that you are too good with him, then I dont know. If it is true that he likes your friend, then I probably won't date him.
Think more about yourself than others. if you think you would be happy with him, then go for it. If not, best leave your feelings alone. listen to what your heart tells you, but, be smart about it. If you know he would hurt you, don't take the chances.
2006-10-07 19:37:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, your love life, will take some good turns and some bad ones. If he seems great to you, get with him, and if it doesn't work out, at least you got some friends around to help pick up the pieces to your heart, and prepare you for the next one.
Good Luck!
2006-10-08 02:35:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have your own life to live. There is no point wait for people to make decision for you. What may be bad for one person may not be the same for another. So take a stand, it will either come out good or bad. Good luck.
2006-10-08 02:41:06 · answer #3 · answered by freeall_freeme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't just stop liking someone. You really can't help it. I know this isn't what you want to hear. One thing that would be really good is try to stop talking to him. Or look for other guys. And if your not wanting to go out with him just because everyone else is telling you not to...well ignore them. Sometimes you just have to learn for your self. You might get hurt but eveything will be okay.
2006-10-08 02:37:58 · answer #4 · answered by miss_lazze08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not waste time with him.he just turning you up and down as he knows you likes him. Why you still want let him to fool you while you know that he is?
guy like to play with girl's feeling and their weaknesses.so please do not ever show your weaknesses to him and any guy in future. guy would not ever appreciate a girl who they do not like and they may just keep fooling around with her.
lastly,please stop be a victim of him as you just will make him proud.ignore him from this second and continue with your life.i believes he is not the only guy in this world. and it is not worth it to love a guy like him since you already know he will just hurts you. forget about him.
you will find someone better soon..
2006-10-08 02:37:36 · answer #5 · answered by jessy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are already in the process of LIKING HIM.
if you continue this way i am sure you will not know what
happened in your life for some years say around 3-4 years.
then suddenly you will open your eyes.
by that time you will find yourself married with the same guy and playing with one kid.
this is the way society is formed.
everybody is doing this permanent job.
2006-10-08 02:40:10 · answer #6 · answered by pdotsee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, Katie, you either grow up and admit that either you like him or you don't, and abandon lame excuses like "I don't want to like him, but I do", or you admit that you're not at all ready to grapple with these kinds of issues, which in itself is a fine sign of emerging maturity, and drop the whole thing.
2006-10-08 02:37:10 · answer #7 · answered by Shari 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is going to hurt you. I know it's hard but you have to get over him. You are too good for him.
2006-10-08 02:37:23 · answer #8 · answered by angie!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he acts like he like you, but "is in love with my friend", he might be using you to get to your friend. You may just enjoy the challenge he presents to you...
2006-10-08 02:37:26 · answer #9 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Concentrate on your studies and on building a future for yourself - you won't have one with him.
2006-10-08 02:34:33 · answer #10 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋