My personal ranting?

Question

This is just my personal opinion .

skinny guys like skinnny/slim girls
slim guys like skinnny/slim girls
obese guys like skinnny/slim girls
fat guys likes skinnny/slim girls

so where does this leave obese and fat gerls. im in this catagory
arghhhhhhh why the world is so all about looks....

I'm 25 and i understand that some guys my age are so immature. even some 35 year olds i knoe even think this way... sighhhh...

my size is like between UK16 and UK18 depending.and very hard to get nice clothings back here.. but i am considered very2 very2 fat as i'm asian. u know most asians are not fat .

Answer 1

Consider yourself lucky that you have a quick and easy filter to get rid of shallow men or people who might only be interested in you for "one thing".

On the other hand, there are many guys out there who like big women specifically. Obviously they are a great minority, but they really do exist.

Whatever you do, love yourself no matter what some shallow guy may say. Is anybody worth stressing over if they don't give you the time of day just based on your looks?!? I say no. I am sure you are beautiful no matter what weight you are.

Answer 2

Look. I kinda feel your pain. I am a short guy and a lot of you gals don't like us shorties. I know and get this. However, I don't let this stop me from flirting and chasing women. If I let my lack of height bother me, then I would be projecting my insecurities and no woman would talk to me.

Keep in mind that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. One man/woman's dog is another's babe. Not all guys like the skinny girls. I know plenty of men who like a lady with meat on their bones. It is all about confidence and how you carry yourself.

Until you lose the weight for you and your well-being, work on the things about you that you can immediatly control. Like personal style, dress, hair and makeup. Also work on mannerisms and your demeanor. Work on being someone that anyone would want to be a part of.

Sad to say, that people are into looks. I bet you are too. You wouldn't go out with any ole' person and neither will they. Just keep in mind when getting rejected that you may not be what they are looking for. Just look at it as there will be another day and other guys to chase.

Answer 3

because the t.v and other places with ad's show skinny people, when you are growing up with that many people and things telling you you are meant to be skinny it's very hard to not listen to it, it's like if your over a size 8 you are fat well i'm a size 18 but that don't stop me haven't a great b/f (who is a size XL) i have even had a son, i'm as happy as i can be even tho i'm what people call fat, i don't see why anyone should stave them selfs just to please other people, even people in they 30's and 40's are now staving them selfs. i think that if someone don't like you for who you are then that person isn't a friend or a good b/f.
sorry for going on abit but i have been wanting to say that for ages.

Answer 4

You are looking for the wrong guy. The guy you want doesn't like girls for her looks. Fat guys may like skinny girls, but how many of them do you see together? Society is cruel. Be yourself and love yourself and people will love you no matter what your size. If you don't like your size, you have the ability to change. If you don't want to change, you need to find someone not superficial (sp) and someone who sees you for you no matter what.

Every guy likes the skinny girls because that's what is in all the magazines. It's a terrible stereotype of what women should be, but it's not the norm. In the real world, girls are bigger. Ironically, a lot of skinny girls have major issues.

Answer 5

In general, I have found that guys like girls with at least a little curviness to them. The main thing is that the girls is confident, fun to be around, and is healthy. Healthy may seem like a strange word, but if a girl looks like she's sick (either from being too skinny or too overweight), she wouldn't biologically be a good "mate."

My friends who have been considered the "hottest" have generally run around a size 10/12 and have been curvy but active.

Answer 6

Thats not always the case i know a few men who only like bigger ladies. Some men are shallow and just go with what society or there mates tell them is cool. Thats pants and we know it, some girls are terriably skinny and dont look healthy at all let alone attractive. I personally wouldnt go out with a skinny bloke i like something i can grab. Keep smiling sweetie dont let the skinny brigade get you down x

Answer 7

There's nothing worse, on Gods earth, than a stick thin girl. These catwalk models starve themselves for years in the name of health and beauty but end up looking like something from Belsen Concentration Camp.

Give me curves and interesting bumps and lumps any day.

If there's more to explore, the longer we'd take to explore!!

Answer 8

Apparently most people of both sexes prefer people who they see as fit and healthy.

So there are some big boned women who fit into this category as they are healthy.and are size 12/14 etc.

The dove advert shows normal women who are beautiful and are all shapes and sizes but again they are all healthy women.

I'm sorry but if you want more choice with the guys the key is to get fit and healthy and that means exercise and taking control of your diet.

You will also feel much better emotionally if you are fit.

Sorry to be blunt, but I'm doing my best to be helpful.

Good luck

Answer 9

I like a little meat on my women , But why do women who are over weight worry about guy trouble, it should be your health your worried about. I'm not sayn to become anorexic, all you have to do is find a happy medium. And dont use that "God made me this way" cause technically God made you a 6 lb baby. how big r u any way, it might be the guys your going after.

Answer 10

You know what? I'm not skinny, in fact some might call me tubby. But guys still want me because I'm comfortable enough with myself that I can go to a restaurant and not just order a salad, (unless it's a taco salad, I love those.) but I'm not packing in the food like I'm starving. It's all about the confidence. And anyway, who would want to date a guy that's shallow enough to just care about looks??