During sex my girl will ask me if I'm done or almost done bacsue I'm starting to hurt her. Or sometimes she'll say it hurts to have an orgasm becasue she's too sensitive. She says it's good but I thought girls could go on forever. So my question is, is she tring to spare my feelings saying I'm great in bed when in reality she can't wait until it's over. Or does this really happen to women?
2006-10-07 19:24:52 · 13 answers · asked by extpimp 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
hey it really does happen. being too sensitive really does hurt and after a while sex is painful. girls cannot go on forever. next time use more lube and ask her what she wants. dont stop until she has an orgasm, even if you have to use different methods
2006-10-07 19:28:24 · answer #1 · answered by spunky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To the previous guys answer about no women commenting on "faking" cause maybe not all the women above feel the need to fake cause they are honest and open and sharing part of their intimate details with a perfect stranger to try and help him...and NOT all women feel the need to lie as you so readily like to believe
To answer the question....women can get "sore" after having an orgasm just like a man is after he is done...we not robots and cant go on for ever!!!Some women only climax once during sex not a few times and then her body is incredible sensitive to touch and further stimulation...be more in tune with her body and talk to her about what she might want you to do more of or less of in love making
2006-10-07 20:07:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fewer girls are faking orgasms, partly 'cos women are shaking off their sexual hang-ups and enjoying it more and saying how they want it, and partly 'cos more men are going down on them etc. But sometimes they do fake them to get it over with quicker. After orgasm, sometimes that's all they've got and it gets sensitive for a while. If you're gentle, they can often keep going and some get multiple orgasms.
Girls get sore. If you start too fast or take too long, they get dry. Their legs get painful from being spread wide too long too. Sometimes you should just finish quickly. Some women have pain with their orgasms, though if it's bad they should seek medical advice. Most important thing: plenty of patient foreplay.
2006-10-07 20:23:26 · answer #3 · answered by servir tres frais 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how long your session is. Normally when a woman climaxes, there is a period of time where she is sensitive to touch, as is a male. However that will subside but doesn't necessarily mean she "can go on forever." It may be that one time is enough for her, she is tired and she wants you to finish and enjoy yourself. If you still have doubts, ask her to show you what she likes. Or as you as doing something to her, ask if it feels good or what you can do to make it better and don't get caught up in making it to the finish line--sometimes the journey can be just as good as making it to the destination!
2006-10-07 19:34:03 · answer #4 · answered by Eileen G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It happens all the time. Sometimes it hurts. Try to respect that and be caring to her, otherwise she'll resent you for putting her through pain. You should be flattered that she's willing and comfortable to be so honest with you. Some girls will just pretend that it feels good and not say that it hurts them and then just be hurt and then the next times suffer, because she is not being open and honest.
2006-10-07 19:33:29 · answer #5 · answered by Stephanie S 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like maybe you are taking to long. Sometimes, it will start to hurt if she has had her orgasms and you're taking to long to have yours, our legs start to hurt and we get dry down there. You need to let her have her orgasms and then you and her at the same time to finish it. AND "NO" girls/women CANNOT go on forever, we got housework and kids to tend to, you know?
2006-10-07 19:32:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not enough info. Are you extremely large? Is there enough lubrication for her? Do you get her completely aroused before you start going at it? I've never heard of an orgasm hurting a woman. Have you ever brought her to orgasm?
2006-10-07 19:39:26 · answer #7 · answered by Elt 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it does hurt if it goes on too long! We get dry and sore! Try more lube, and if it hurts her, get off until she is OK to take you again. It may be that she needs more foreplay between sessions, or you need to get REALLY CLOSE to orgasm before you have intercourse. Good luck with all that.
2006-10-07 19:39:15 · answer #8 · answered by cailincox 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
every woman is different, if she has intense pain after climax i can understand why she wants you to stop, if you go on and on when you dont need to , well you are hurting her, and if you need more stimulation than her to get there, then let her use her hands or mouth before you enter her.
2006-10-07 19:28:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know from experience, dude, that this does happen but she is faking. She must one of those girls who are too nice.
2006-10-07 19:29:27 · answer #10 · answered by chriskelly656 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋