I met a girl for drinks, everything clicked, she leaned into me, lots of eye contact, kissing me, etc, Then she started drnking more and more. Then she started saying I was aloof. Then when I asked if she wanted to leave i grabbed her hand she pulled away. Then when i walked she stopped walking. I turned around and she was gone. Then I saw her standing at the bar. I saidwhats wrong? she started yelling at me! Telling me I was rude walking so fast etc. wasnt a romantic. That I was cheap.She was treaing me like a dog!i wanted to go home! I wasnt going to let her treat me like that!AFter she was warm affectionate...she turned into the devil at the drop of a hat! The ride home in her car was horrible. She smoker and knew I had asthma! She was telling me I wasnt cute and wanted to be just friends etc. I tol dher no I dont want anything with her! I pulledover and and said ya! Jumped out her car and walked away. Why did she do this to me? She must be a mean drunk. She totally led me on.
2006-10-07 19:24:11 · 14 answers · asked by usa_jcrew68 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like she was a drunk.........
2006-10-07 19:25:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Nick,
That really SUX. Now, it's possible she was just using you for drinks. It could be there are some details we're missing from this story, I'd love to get her side. I've been on over 110 dates from online since 1997 and in the beginning I had a lot of dates from hell. Did you qualify her when u first met her online? Did you make it a point to get on the phone and then do some more screening there?
I used to NOT do that in the beginning when I used to meet girls on Match.com and Yahoo! And now MySpace and other sites are goldmines for meeting women, but you have to know how to QUALIFY a woman before you meet up with ther. This woman you went out on a date with sounded like a self-center beeyotch! She might have been a psycho-beeetch!
Who knows? Don't let this bad experience keep you from dating and meeting other women online. I'm telling ya, you have to date quite a few FROGS before you can find that princess. You can turn these lemons into lemonades by just using a mind shift. This will be a funny story you can tell your kids, your friends, or whomever. Look at it this way. You found out EARLY on that she was a total FREAKAZOID before you moved in with her or got married. Imagine if her evil side didn't come out until then?
Consider yourself lucky.
Rod
2006-10-07 19:33:37 · answer #2 · answered by thedatepro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds Like you dated the DATE from Hell!
She Had very Obviously had a Soul Full of Issues and Problems!
You were just the Unfortunate Person to Off-loaded on!
Quite sure that NOT ALL Women are Closet cases!
Maybe Next time do a little me digging into The personality of Your dates before you get your ears bent once more!
Happy Hunting!
2006-10-07 19:29:03 · answer #3 · answered by J. Charles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a split personality! God, I hope she leaves you alone. Don't judge all women by her. I don't trust sites as you can't tell if a person is lying because you can't see their body movements off an email or chat. Best way to find people is by face to face encounters.
2006-10-07 19:27:14 · answer #4 · answered by Social_D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was never mean to anyone off from dating sites, dont let her walk all over u cuz shes a drunk and i hope u did not just want sex ok sometimes women will get mad if that is al u talk bout and if that is wut is always on ur mind never take advantage of any girl from anywere.....k? hey e-mai; me any time....k its.....gothic_peps_r_hot@yahoo.com we can get to no each other......k
just never take advantage of a girl and im not saying u did or u are
2006-10-07 19:32:29 · answer #5 · answered by amber e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had a bad experience. Don't give up. Not all woman will act like that. There are many nice ones out there.
2006-10-07 19:27:09 · answer #6 · answered by Fleur de Lis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she decided she wasn't that into you, but hey don't give up there are heaps of nice women out there.
2006-10-07 19:34:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have to turn to sites for dates, are you unable to get one without them?
2006-10-07 19:26:14 · answer #8 · answered by poetic princess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOOK cant you tame that wild cat? Whats wrong with you? I am sending you my bull whip.
2006-10-07 19:26:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I'm sure it was all her fault. No matter, keep trying. What's to lose.
2006-10-07 19:28:40 · answer #10 · answered by OU812 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she definatly has problems and the drinking brought them out for her.that sounds funny!what was she drinking?LOLO!
2006-10-07 19:27:32 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋