can many small problem equal one hell of a big problem?

Question

i am 20 and still live with my father (the local community college demolished the dorms ) i have no job (the more one in this town would rather hire druggies full time then allow college students a chance) i live in a house with way too much noise and anger, my friends are all dick heads, i dont feel like a man and feel i deserv death as much as a child rapist (only way i have hurt a child is paddeling their little butt {did you know a hard flick to the ear works better than paddeling their butt? its true!}) i am still a virgin at 20 and get annoyed when my friends say how good of a f*ck this or that girl was...i have low testostrone which gives me a short fuse...could all this added up cause major problems?

i get to see a psychatrists on the 30 at noon in room 15...i typed that all out to make sure i remberd.

i think i know better than you what low testostrone does. and yes it does give you a short fuse. along with depression which does not come with high testostrone

Answer 1

sounds like you have major stress. just like me. you need privacy and some new friends..and a job. even a part time job to get out of the house would help. seeing this psychiatrist might help. at least you have someone to talk to, we dont really have those kind of docs here or i would see one myself.

Answer 2

Indeed many small problems can add up to a huge problem. You know it is often the small problems that defeat us in the long run. I mean it is what seemed like little problems from the past grow or manifest into horrible problems in the future, especially if they are not handled correctly. Sounds like you are in a state but I am very glad to see that you are seeking professional help. They can do wonders. Best of luck to you. I am confident that things will get better for you.

Answer 3

Wow, that's a confusing one. You for sure have diverse existence, which makes me ask your self why you chosen to be roommates to commence with. i imagine he's being VERY thoughtless coming in that late and making a lot noise. Very unfair. in case you could not reason with him on that concern, possibly a good pair of earplugs might want to be one answer for you. he's unquestionably no longer entitled to extra room seeing because the way you pay a similar volume of employ. If he needs extra room then possibly HE could pay extra employ. (sounds like you 2 favor a larger position). i imagine that each and every of you have to be procuring your individual toiletries, and that consists of lavatory paper. so some distance as cleansing up after himself, my God, that's like the rudest challenge EVER even as residing with a roommate. i imagine you adult males favor to carry a gathering, and each and every of write down what bothers you maximum about one yet another, and then attempt to resolve those topics like adults fairly of little ones. once you've 2 persons, 2 diverse personalities sharing an exceedingly small area, verbal change is a ought to or it in simple terms received't exercising consultation. attempt talking with him first, and then possibly evaluate both shifting or getting a sparkling roommate.

Answer 4

Hi, yes definately many small problems can lead to one huge one. You sound pretty with it in the intellignece stakes, so sounds like all you need is to learn to do some problem solving. Break things down into steps and tackle them one at a time.
Good luck.

Answer 5

yes its good ur going to c someone, similiar thing happend to me, my friends were being jerks, my family couldn't help, so i just bottled everything in and tried to get on with my life, i was really depressed but would still act as if nothing was wrong, until one night i was out with my friends and had a melt down, i went to see a therapist and did so till i felt better, there s nothing wrong with what u r doing, u r so young yet and have a whole life ahead of you, remember to get things out b4 they build up. LOL

Answer 6

I hope that the shrink can help you out.

Recently I had many many small problems, together they added up to one hell of a marriage. I got a divorce last week and my life is so much better!

Answer 7

I pause to consider; if you know (at 20 years of age) more than anyone else in here...... why do you pose the question to less intelligent people??????

Answer 8

So you have a small problem down there do you? A HIGH testosterone leads to a small fuse, not a low testosterone. So you are safe!, low testosterone, small problem down there, still a virgin, ....hmmm, you dont need a psychiatrist, you need a girl.....Cheers mate...happy fcuking.