ok for the past 2 months me and this girl have been hanging out...she likes me and i like her...she has never given me an answer as to us going out....come to find out...she likes me very very much and wants nothing more than to be with me all the time....but she still has feelings for an X that used her a year or so back...i am so hurt cuz we hangout so much...i also didnt kiss her yet and im wondering if that would help anything...im affraid to kiss her when i kno she still likes somebody else...but she said she likes me more so idk...i have never kissed a girl before and i dont know how to do that either...any help at all would be awesome...thankls in advance for any help i recieve from anyone
2006-10-07 19:07:52 · 7 answers · asked by Kyle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's made it clear she has feelings for you---and you have feelings for her as well---kiss her---seal the deal--sometimes a kiss is all it takes for the other person to realize that nobody else matters....Don't be terrified...if it weren't meant to be 2 months wouldn't even be in the equation--this other guy doesn't better--you've been there and that's what counts...I hope it works out for you
2006-10-07 19:13:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know its hard when You like/love someone and they just don't seem to care about Your feelings.I have been there many times!!!
It sounds like She still has past issues and no matter what you try to do,it will not really help.I know it sucks but the best thing to do is just start to ignore Her.Either She will see how much You were caring for her and start to appreciate You or She will move on.If she moves on it is better that you find this out now instead of much later.
I know how bad You feel right now but please hang in there.
2006-10-07 19:16:56 · answer #2 · answered by cloglvr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound young, try and kiss her, if you get a broken heart, you'll have plenty of time to recover, everyone gets brokenhearted before. About the kissing thing, it will just come to you, don't go shoving your tongue down her throat though, soft and gentle, practice on your hand, watch movies, just be gentle and only do it if she wants to don't ever force a girl into anything she does not want to do, good luck and just go with the flow. LOL
2006-10-07 19:13:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go for it. Start slow, if she backs off twice then you know and start looking elswhere. If she initiaties contact on a kind of innocent but gentle lingering level, then she wants you to go for it. About her something seems a bit wrong. ) She doesn't seem willing to commit and may never will be, 2) is using you until someone better comes along.
2006-10-07 19:16:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY ARE YOU BEING SUCH A PUTZ???
She likes you very much, wants to be with you all the time, what do you need, a brick to fall on your head????
MAKE her forget about the ex by being so wonderful she'll forget his name. Trust me, it will work. And Kiss her already, plant a hot one on her and she'll forget her own name.
2006-10-07 19:22:25 · answer #5 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your sensitivity and patience will help her remember why her X is just that, and help shift her focus to her relationship with you! Prove to her that she can trust you emotionally, first and foremost. And, seriously, don't rush the physical, because that'll hit strongly enough on its own.
2006-10-07 19:17:21 · answer #6 · answered by jessvangogh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
her past got nothing to do with anything.
next time you get a feeling it's a good time to kiss tell her:
"I never kissed a girl before"
she can enjoy teaching you.
2006-10-07 19:14:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋