I am 29 years old and recently divorced. I have not been on a date in over 8 years. I used to be a big flirt, but now I feel like a retard and don't know what to say. How do you pick your self back up and start over? What is the first date like after the divorce?
2006-10-07 19:02:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It takes time but just like riding a bicycle you never forget how, just start off with baby steps, remember you have to crawl before you can walk
2006-10-07 19:05:08 · answer #1 · answered by smitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and things will be fine. It is one of those things that really takes you being confident about who you are and what is inside of you. If you stress too much, it will show. First date? Nervous and exciting all at the same time. You wind up feeling like a kid again, but as the evening goes on, you usually become more confident and relaxed. I am sure you will do just fine, sweetie!
2006-10-07 19:05:53 · answer #2 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
probable extra so now on the grounds which you're conscious which you're single returned. attempt to no longer bypass overboard, like being on the rebound. have exciting and attempt to no longer get too serious with every person ideal away, you want time to heal. in case you have flirting skills already then that's going to no longer be any situation bringing out what's in you already.
2016-12-26 12:29:20 · answer #3 · answered by santolucito 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep it will be weird . but after the first say to your self i am me do a little dance ( in your head ) and have a good time i you want i can help out practice but your buying (the last parts a joke we'll do 50/50)
2006-10-07 19:09:30 · answer #4 · answered by k dog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember not to call your date by your ex-husband's name. Some divorced women do that.
2006-10-07 19:06:44 · answer #5 · answered by David S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe sign up for an online dating site. You can work yourself back into it slowly at your own pace. I'm sure you will recover your charm soon enough.
2006-10-07 19:05:10 · answer #6 · answered by Didgeridude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One way to get your skills back is to practice. they say practice makes perfect. If you want you can practice on me. Email me sometime I'll listen. foot_15143@yahoo.com
2006-10-07 19:09:41 · answer #7 · answered by John H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
am divorce also let work on them together hope to hear from you robert899295@yahoo.com
2006-10-07 19:08:22 · answer #8 · answered by robert899295 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax,show must go on,just always hang out,and u will find what u looking for...
2006-10-07 19:07:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax and be yourself, you'll do great. Take your time though.
2006-10-07 19:07:02 · answer #10 · answered by AK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋