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He's not gay but we ( Family ) are thinking about telling the Marines he is gay in order to save his life. How fast will they kick him out of the Marines?

2006-10-07 18:39:19 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government Military

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DON'T DO THAT! first of all, not to be mean, but it isn't your decision if he should be in the war or not. he is old enough to make his own decisions, and also, he would most likely hate you for the rest of his life. and 2, if you do, they will most likely kill him. i never thought i would say this, so don't take it the wrong way...YOU NEED A SERIOUS REALITY CHECK! GOD, YOU ARE PROBABLY THE WORST FAMILY IN THE WORLD. I MEAN SERIOUSLY, IF YOU ARE GOING TO DO THAT, YOU MIGHT AS WELL NOT WORRY ABOUT SPEAKING TO HIM AGAIN. DON'T PUNISH HIM FOR HIS BELIEFS JUST BECAUSE THEY AREN'T THE SAME AS YOURS! IF HE DIDN'T WANT TO BE THERE, HE WOULDN'T HAVE SIGNED UP FOR THE ARMY IN THE FIRST PLACE, NOW WOULD HE? I MEAN, SERIOUSLY, HOW WOULD YOU LIKE IT IF YOU WERE DOING SOMETHING THAT YOU LIKED, JUST TO BE YANKED OUT OF IT BECAUSE SOMEONE SAID YOU WERE A HOMO. LEAVE HIM ALONE. IF HE DIES, HE DIES. BUT AT LEAST IT WILL BE WITH HONOR FIGHTING FOR HIS COUNTRY INSTEAD OF GETTING KILLED BECAUSE SOMEONE SHOT/TORTURED HIM FOR BEING GAY JUST BECAUSE HIS FAMILY SAID SO. DON'T YOU THINK THAT IF HE WANTED OUT, THAT HE WOULD TELL THEM THAT ANYWAY!? LEAVE HIM ALONE, IF HE DIES THERE FIGHTING, AT LEAST YOU WILL HAVE THE HONOR TO SAY THAT HE PROUDLY DIED DEFENDING OUR COUNRY! I MEAN, HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF YOU HAD TO TELL SOMEONE THAT THE REASON THAT HE DIED WAS BECAUSE YOU SAID THAT HE WAS GAY AND SOMEONE SHOT HIM FOR IT!! HOW WOULD YOU LIVE WITH YOUSELF!
Sorry, but everything i put is the pure and simple truth. My opinions. Go ahead, report this, i don't care, i got my point across didn't I? and if i didn't, you are SERIOUSLY mental

2006-10-07 18:52:07 · answer #1 · answered by Chris5519 2 · 3 0

Wow, so your whole family is a bunch of morons! I can see why you're the way you are.
Perhaps your nephew joined the Marines to get as far away as possible from all you. Perhaps the thought of being sent to Iraq was far more appealing then having to be around you people.
Good luck with your plan! Your nephew isn't going to be kicked out of the Military based on a lie his twisted family decided to come up with. I'm sure after five minutes in a room with you and your mentally challenged relatives, an intelligent CO in the
US Marines will see what a pathetic bunch you all are! He'll probably pat your nephew on the back for being smart enough to get away from you.

2006-10-08 10:15:28 · answer #2 · answered by Naples_6 5 · 1 1

If he's old enough to join the marines, he's old enough to make this decision for himself.

In any case, they would do an investigation. If he denied it and if there was no proof, he would not be discharged.

Your intentions though good are immoral. What would happen if everyone could withdraw from the military whenever they wanted to? Once you sign the dotted line you have to be willing to face the consequences. The military exists to fight and win our nations wars. That's what your nephew signed up to do.

For the record, I am against this idiotic war in Iraq.

2006-10-07 18:44:17 · answer #3 · answered by inpoetry1 3 · 3 0

At first i thought you were lieing about being in the military but now i'm thinking shellshock could be a real answer. What the H**L is up w/ you and the Marines? Did you want in but couldn't hack it?...still bitter maybe? Did a Marine stomp your azz and ego into infinity? Did your girlfriend run off w/ one?... Do you know how pathetic you sound w/ all this crap? Get some counseling an meds., or cheaper.. dig your head outta ur a*s , clear the crap away and move on w/ ur life!!

2006-10-07 19:03:25 · answer #4 · answered by lucky 4 · 2 2

First of all, as the wife of a Marine currently serving in Iraq, we are not fighting for BUsh, we are fighting for the betterment of the Iraqi people. We are fighting for the women and children being beaten and burned, for the men having to watch this happen to their sisters, wives, daughters, children. Before you start making statements about the military and what we are doing over there, do your research and respect the men and women of the military risking their lives for the betterment of the lives of us and those in neighboring countries.

2006-10-07 22:56:56 · answer #5 · answered by rwwebber4 2 · 2 0

It won't work. The Marine Corps will investigate him and determine that either he's not gay or isn't practicing a gay lifestyle while on active duty. He won't be discharged for this reason.

What will happen is that your relationship with him will be permanently destroyed. He's a free man and he made an informed decision to serve his country. Instead of trying to sabotage his career and ruin his prospects for future employment, you should express your support for him personally (even if you don't agree with U.S. foreign policy) and do whatever you can to help him cope with his duty, and be proud of him.

2006-10-08 15:22:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

HIS life being the main point here.

He chose the life of a United States Marine.

He will live the life of a Marine, you should not interfere.

BTW, If my family did such a thing to me then they would not be considered my family anymore.

Such an act would be EXTREMELY low, even for you 'Erudite', and based on your many, many idiotic questions, I have absolutely no faith in your character as a human being.

2006-10-08 00:27:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3 0

Oh i think of I study that inaccurate you found 6 greenback expenses or did you come across 2 3 greenback expenses? in relation to the 1st state of affairs no you're no longer gay. in relation to the 2d. there is an threat you may properly be that or somebody planted them there lol.

2016-12-08 10:27:35 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

They will not kick him out. However if his fellow marines find out....you can say goodbye to him now. DO NOT do that to your nephew. he joined the marines for a reason. respect his decision and let him be.

2006-10-07 23:41:21 · answer #9 · answered by ApRiL 3 · 2 0

That would hurt more than help him. It will follow him the rest of his life and always leave room for people to question his abilities for acquiring gainful employment. If he gets a "honorable" discharge, he will have to explain himself every time he applies for a job. Everyone will wonder why he got out. No one will ever believe him and it will come back to haunt you and your family. He made his choice to serve his country in the Marines. There's nothing more honorable than that. You should be proud of him. As much as I love my son and don't really want him to join any military organization at this time, I would respect his wishes and support him and pray for him on a daily basis. That's what you should be doing instead of trying to find ways to embarrass and undermine him.

2006-10-07 18:46:39 · answer #10 · answered by eehco 6 · 1 2

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