Lets say a girl and a guy are friends, but theyre having sex. but they live far away and have sex whenever they meet up. The guy tells her he will never get tired of her 'loving'. And even if he says the girl is fantastic in bed and he cant get enough, will the guy start to get tired and start ignoring her? Guys what do u think? Women? Hypothetically speaking of course... for a friend.
2006-10-07 17:54:47 · 14 answers · asked by LN 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanks so much for all the answers. but the friend knows that its only sex and shes ok with it and only wants sex from him too, but recently he may have started saying little things that make her feel like he likes her for more and might be confusing her and making her think that she wouldnt be opposed to it. So even though she might reallly get hurt if she starts to fall hard for him doesnt it mean something when a guy tells you that he reallly likes your company and he respects that you are sexually open. Like even if they stopped having sex because they found a new love, dont u think they would stay friends? At all?
2006-10-07 18:08:54 · update #1
of course he won't get rid of her.
he's got the best of both worlds.
he can screw her whenever he wants and she'll never know who else he's with because he's far away. why would he give up such a perfect situation?
2006-10-07 17:57:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's to get rid of? They live in different cities and hook up to have sex? He can date or f*ck whoever he wants at home and then go on vacation and have sex there too.
What "your friend" needs to worry about is if he gets in a serious relationship. Then it won't be an issue of him getting tired of the girl, but him being in love with someone that he doesn't want to hurt by cheating on her.
What does your friend expect? Just sex is just sex. If she expects more from him she will be sorely disappointed!
2006-10-08 01:02:36 · answer #2 · answered by jeshzisd 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
see....i don know whose story this is.....still i feel what have friends....just frends.....got to do with sex????...........in frendship both the parties shuld respect eachother.........but stiil if this happens....then i would quote that as he made her his frend and has sex he may even make or has already made new frnd and get invovled in his...and may feel the girl a boring pot........but if u think the guy must be a promising guy then u have a misconception in u..a promising guy will nevr have sex untill they are married as he will surely care for the girl's future.....and if he says the girl is fantastic in bed...then that indicates that he is jst lust-oriented and not really in love...hope u understand.
2006-10-08 01:05:22 · answer #3 · answered by pyaree 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he is gonna get tired of "her". Sex is nothing without a relationship. He is just using "her" for what she is giving up. He only says what "she" wants to hear because he is getting something out of it. Tell your "friend" to be careful because it will be harder for "her" to get over it. He is happy for now, but when he finds someone else to give it to him that's when he will begin to be ignoring "her". Be careful.
2006-10-08 01:01:05 · answer #4 · answered by Hot Mami 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the friend sounds like a bootie call!!! but if she is satisfied with the relationship (and i use that term loosely) then let her continue on. i'm sure he will never get tired of her "loving" as long as there are no strings attached. and i am sure he will continue to enjoy it long after he has married someone else!!! if she wants more and he is unwilling, then she should not waste her time with him because he is using her. no he will never get tired but i bet you, oops i mean she, will!!!!!!!!
2006-10-08 01:02:22 · answer #5 · answered by sweettee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, your "friend" should know that this guy will get tired of her. he's only using her there's no future there & that guy knows it. When a guy cares for you he will not think that your loving is the best thing about you he'll try to get to know you too as a person :)
2006-10-08 01:00:02 · answer #6 · answered by SUGIE 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is called "Friends with benefits". Normally it continues until one or the other seriously dates another that they have a long term commitment to.
It it still continues, then the person isn't all that committed. Talk to your analyst and what does he/she say about it.
2006-10-08 01:04:36 · answer #7 · answered by Rickard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,if he says he's tired of having sex that's a valid reason. but when he says he's tired of loving you,it means he doesn't want or love you anymore.. ignoring is another word for "i don't want to talk to you anymore or i don't want you to be with you anymore.." if the boy really loves the girl he wouldn't do or say that..
2006-10-08 01:03:23 · answer #8 · answered by Ladyvirus 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well hon thats kind of a hard ? it depends. But the way u describe whats going on you"friend" will b getting it for a long time
2006-10-08 00:58:26 · answer #9 · answered by shariecollins2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes he will move on but i hope your "friend" hasn't gotten attached to this guy. as long as you remember that it's just for sex and nothing else, your friend will be ok. she should try to find someone that wants to be with her and not just use her for sex.
2006-10-08 01:00:43 · answer #10 · answered by Quociana L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋