Do most dedicated loving fiancee's call their g/f , fiancee's no less than every three days?

Question

My b/f (fiancee), promised me he would call me every third day if he did'nt get a chance to do it sooner, but he has'nt called me now for like a week, and i can't call him anymore cause i already ran up my bill to much calling him. He lives in europe right now and he knows its cheaper for him to call me than it is for me to call him. I just want to know if this is normal for a fiancee to not call his future wife that often. We've been together for over two years, but still i think he should call me more often than he does. Could he possiably be cheating on me? In the past i had to remind him to call me by calling him, but now that i can't call him, he does'nt call me. what should i do? He also said that he never breaks a promise no matter what. either he's dead in a street somewhere or more likely he just does'nt care to take the time to call me for some reason. a reason i don't know or understand. he does'nt show any other signs of cheating on me, and its not in his character,i think.

Answer 1

to the woman who said you have it made ...um going a week without calling is rude!! so whatever he feels about you is one thing, but the way he's treating you is another. i wouldnt say he's cheating on your but he's definitly taking you for granted. send a letter and tell him you are not happy about this. sadly it will get to him in a week or so, but if you are unable to call him whatelse can you do. but this is a wake up call (forgive the pun) for you.

Answer 2

If you're already having communication problems then that alone says a lot. By communication problems, I'm not referring to the fact that he doesn't call you every three days....I'm referring to the fact that it bugs you that he doesn't. In other words, you have expectations that he's not meeting. This means that either you learn to deal with that or let him know that your needs are not being met.

I wouldn't assume he's cheating if I were you. He might be keeping quite busy with work or something else.

However, if you are expecting him to deliver on something he's not capable of delivering then it's time to examine your relationship and your needs. Granted no one can satisfy of their loved one's desires all of the time, but your request seems like a small one to me - given that you're set to become life partners, especially.

Answer 3

He cou8ld email you. Thgis indeed smells fishy, and it is a forcast of things to come. What is his problem about not emailing? What is the bug deal? It takes 5 minutes?

He's seing his oats and doesn't want you to know, I'd bet.

However, I simetimes lose bets, so when he returns, you can play hard to get anjd demand to know why the silent treatment? I hoipe he isnt hosptalized or something.

Answer 4

y r u not with him in Europe long distance relationships r hard takes a lot of trust n self control a week is a long time hon my bet is yes he is hitting something on the side

Answer 5

I'd be irked that he wasn't calling. But as long as he called once a week I wouldn't worry too much. It may be less expensive for him to call you but it still is not cheap.

Answer 6

If a missed phone call is your biggest worry, I would say you have it good. Relax, I'm sure he'll call as soon as he can, until then stop worrying and do something productive with your time.

Answer 7

he's probably not cheating just busy or tired. my finacee is truck driver and i would like to talk him everyday but it's just not possible. you have to trust him. and sounds like you need a new hobby besides waiting by the phone!

Answer 8

If your fiancee does not call you every day you have a problem.

Answer 9

nope