My Older sister called my yonger sister in the delivery room while she was giving birth to her baby and my younger sister is only 16 she got a $700.00 baby shower thrown for her and after my 16 year old sister had her baby my older sister drove 250 miles to see him.
but when i had my first kid i didnt get a card or a phone call or any thing and she didnt see him till he was about 2 month and i had to go to her.
and with my second kid again nothing and she didnt see her till she was around 6 months of age.
After my mom pased two months ago (the only person i was close to). All my sister call each other except for me.??
2006-10-07 17:47:14 · 7 answers · asked by Dakotah D 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Ive brought it up before and they just say ya but i didnt have the money when you were pregnant put a card is only 50cents and 37 cents to send it Its not like i wanted a huge baby shower just them to recognize that i was here. They didnt even appoligize for it.
2006-10-07 17:54:43 · update #1
Im married so i can have kids okay
2006-10-07 17:55:42 · update #2
ya that was another thing when my grandfather passed away they called mean 9 o'clock at night to tell me that his funeral was tomarrow
2006-10-07 17:59:33 · update #3
There is no use reliving the lack of involvement of your older sister with the birth of your children, it will eat away at you and make you bitter.
As adults, it is difficult to understand why someone close to you can treat you with such indifference. Maybe they don't realize how much the situation bothers you. As you stated in your own comments, your mom was the only person who you were close to. maybe your sisters, for whatever reason never felt a close bond with you. This doesn't make the hurt disappear but there is nothing that will change the past. The only thing you can do is live for the present. Talk with your sisters. IT may not change a thing, however, it could make a difference.
2006-10-07 18:04:46 · answer #1 · answered by Sprite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I also have two sisters both younger than me and neither of them ever call. The two of them live 5 miles apart and talk almost every day and I live about an hour from them. I have lived here for over two years and they have been to my home a total of once. They have this long distance thing with their phone company where they can make as many long distance calls as they want for one price and I don't but they still never call. I don't let it bother me anymore. It did at first but you get over it with time. I just figure they'll need something one day and I won't be there. Oh, and by the way, they didn't come to my baby shower either. Don't waster your time worrying about it. Things have a way of working themselves out and remember what goes up must come down.
2006-10-08 00:56:48 · answer #2 · answered by jeezmeneti66 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my family is like this. all of them including my step mom. she has bent over back wards for my siblings but when it comes to me im non existant including when someone dies. i dont call them i dont help them i dont have anything really o do with them when they do show up im always busy. even if they drove 5 ours to supposably see me. i just dont want nothing to do with them any more. and now that im expecting again now my step mom wants to be there i just told her it was ok and i have my support. now shes calling all the time. dont take there $hit and ignore them eventually they will come around hopefully before its to late.
2006-10-08 00:56:57 · answer #3 · answered by evilella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is wierd it's obvious your sisters are freezing you out of their lives ....I just think you need to confront them about it and try to get an explanation of why they are doing it to you...good luck.......
2006-10-08 00:51:07 · answer #4 · answered by Laura 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see .....
extend the Olive branch ... see what the reaction is .... if you don't like it swat each of them with the olive branch!
2006-10-08 00:55:13 · answer #5 · answered by John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk it out with them...probably they don't like you dat much(sorry 4 dat)....but if could help if u talk to them about thsi frankly and clear all misunderstandings.
2006-10-08 00:50:19 · answer #6 · answered by bhoomika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think you need to learn what birth control is
2006-10-08 00:54:16 · answer #7 · answered by emily 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋