I have a crush on my boyfriends dad. He's got a southern accent that turns me on and I just feel weird around him. He is about 60 and I'm 23. I told my boyfriend about it and he was pretty discusted by it. I just keep thinking about his dad and having fatasies about him. I imagine walking around with my T-shirt on and letting him get a good view of my body. Is this normal? Am I a freak? How can I get over it?
2006-10-07 17:02:56 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are so NOT a freak! It's normal. When I was 16 I had a crush on my bf's dad--he was hot and so much older! It's not like you're going to act on it. A little fantasy never hurt anyone and actually it keeps things interesting. It's understandable that your bf would get all weird, wouldn't you if someone had a hot crush on one of your parents? For bf sake, no more talking about it with him. Enjoy your little secret, you'll have many in your life time and you may always look back and giggle long after you have forgotten your bf's name, you'll remember his hot father with the southern accent!
2006-10-07 17:10:05 · answer #1 · answered by devilmaycare 1 · 3⤊ 7⤋
LMAO! I'm sorry, but the part about walking around him with your t-shirt on really got me. Well, you shouldn't have told your bf this. Crushes don't always have to be revealed, and this is one that should have been kept a secret. Just try to think about the fact that the man is 60, and old enough to be your grandfather. Now, everytime you think about him, think about your Grandfather. That should get rid of any fantasies you might have, and if it doesn't, then yeah sorry to tell you, you are weird.
2006-10-07 17:06:28 · answer #2 · answered by LibraT 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
When you are 50 your boyfriends dad will be 87. Forget it unless you like to live your whole life with a grandpa.
If you wanted to know there are many young guys with southern accents anyway. Marry your boyfriend not his dad. Your boyfriend is the one who lives you and don't forget that. Loll !
2006-10-07 17:15:41 · answer #3 · answered by Bachelor boy 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No don't do that, geez, the guy is being nice to you because your dating his son, don't repay him by letting him get a good view of your body!! Think about it, what would that do to his relationship with his son??? You are going to cause problems for them if you don't stop, and the dad isn't even doing anything!! If he's a good dad to his son, and you let him get a good view of your body, he'll have a talk with his son, and it will be about dumping you.
2006-10-07 17:09:19 · answer #4 · answered by Kathy C 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is a harmless infatuation. A lot of the things you like in your boyfriend probably came from his father. There is not much good that can come from acting out any of these fantasies. (unless you are the 60 yo dude). Naw that doesn't even sound good.
2006-10-07 17:07:15 · answer #5 · answered by mss04 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What do you think your boyfriend will look like when he is 60?
It is just a sign of things to come dont worry.
2006-10-07 17:07:50 · answer #6 · answered by iamawesome 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you probably will work better than Viagra if he needed it.Just pretend the boy friend is the dad.But that is far as it should go is just a fatasy.
2006-10-07 17:07:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't even think about getting with his dad , if you do then you are nasty as hell ... If you can't get over it then you need to leave your man so that way you won't hurt him in the process and that way you won't see his dad.
2006-10-07 17:07:26 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ Army Wife ♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your not a freak you cant change your feelings but u need to get over it or you end up like anna nicloe-smith
2006-10-07 17:06:45 · answer #9 · answered by ~*~Dis Chick Iz Delicious~*~ 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
About a thousand middle aged dads are smiling right now....
2006-10-07 17:05:42 · answer #10 · answered by Singinganddancing 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋