I'm 17 and I have never had a gf. Now that I'm in my senior year, this is begging to bother me. I'm really shy. I need some help. WHat should I do? Where is a good place to find a good girl (mall,church etc.)?
2006-10-07 17:01:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
shoot just ask me out im hot and sweet and im 16
2006-10-07 17:12:58 · answer #1 · answered by class of 2010!!! rock on 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it bothering you? I mean think about it. If you're planning to go to college out of state or wherever, why get a steady girlfriend now? Just go out on some fun dates... Prom is coming up and I know there's like hundreds of dances... But I would go somewhere where you can be yourself and not be so shy and be comfortable. Why not at school? Yeah you can try church or the mall too but at the mall there be some fast girls there... work out at a gym.. I met pleanty of guys there. PIck an enviroment that you belong in and that you can have something in common to talk about. Good Luck.
2006-10-08 00:07:13 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. PHILlis (in training) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all try not to be too shy...I mean the worse that can happen is a girl can say no, it really isn't that life shattering...then just try being yourself, okay you might be shy but some girls like that...just make yourself seem available and interested in trying to get to know females...also just try starting off with your friends, they sometimes make the best significant others...also try getting out more you can meet females anywhere the mall, church, sports event, maybe a dance and see what happens from there...hope this helps good luck!!!!
2006-10-08 00:12:07 · answer #3 · answered by Chelly Belly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a nice girl at your school. Malls are ok to find a girl BUT most of the time those kinds of girls are there to hook up so i would try and stay away from the mall. Church...sure! ! if she goes with her family and is dress nice then yeah for sure! mostly look for a girl that you like. dont go for the looks RIGHT away because you should never judge a book by its cover! i know it sounds stupid BUT if you go for looks you might end up with someone that only cares about her looks!! so you'd be just wasting your time! :) Also... dont rush into things! take it one step at a time :)
Good luck!
2006-10-08 00:07:29 · answer #4 · answered by ZaNy_kiDd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there anyone at school you've had your eye on? Don't be shy, look at it like this--high school is your opportunity to make all your social mistakes along with everyone else. It will only get harder to approach or meet people the older you get, so reach out now to someone you know and just ask them to accompany you someplace. Maybe if you look around a little you will notice a girl who has been noticing you. good luck!
2006-10-08 00:06:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
church is a good place because obviously you and the other party have similar values. probably just focus on improving yourself by going out more, reading the news or watchin it to keep up to date during any conversations. what about school? im sure your friends could help set you up. join in some school activities to get to know more girls etc.
2006-10-08 00:11:15 · answer #6 · answered by Norz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it easy. dont stress yourself out about it. if you really, really must have a gf for the sake of your self esteem, then find a girl that you KNOW will go with you. What i mean is find a girl that is a little overweight or isnt very pretty so that you can get experience with girls and also their easier to ask out. Your only 17 lots of people don't date a lot or at all at your age. Chill.
2006-10-08 00:07:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is going to sound crazy, but don't worry yourself over it. If you go out specifically looking to meet girls, they will pick up on this, and you won't do very well because they will read you as "needy". The best thing to do is to invest yourself in the things that interest YOU (but ideally, put you in the company of girls as well). A girl will be more attracted to a guy who she feels isn't going to be needy or clingy. Does this make sense?
2006-10-08 00:08:15 · answer #8 · answered by Chris S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join a club at school and meet people with a common interest. Common interests at first is one of the best ways to build a strong relationship.
2006-10-08 00:04:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok. u will find love when it is the rite time. been shy is a common thing wit both boyz and gurlz. i know 4 sure that there is a girl for u out there. and when its time, she shall reveal herself.just dont force ur emotion into things its not ready for or else u will end up with the wrong thing. choose wisely
2006-10-08 00:11:18 · answer #10 · answered by yemi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm 15 and a senior too and I have never had a boyfriend, but that doesn't bother me though. xD Well, if she comes, she will. At the moment, try to remember that it's no contest and it doesn't matter how old you are.
2006-10-08 00:03:41 · answer #11 · answered by Galadriel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋