i m going to get married soon and i need to know all the info about married life
i know that these kind of things are explained by a mother bfore marriage but i dont have any relative to do so so plz help me know all the do's n dont's on the first night n so on
2006-10-07 16:50:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Eventually the honeymoon phase wears off.
Be each other's best friend, listen more than you talk and always think before you speak. There will be good times and bad times so it's important you stay as a team and work things out together. Never go to bed angry. What you once found charming about him you will soon find annoying, so don't nag, nobody is perfect. Never make an accusation unless you have proof.
very important: make a date with each other once a week, go to a movie, out to dinner, for coffee- whatever-just get out of the house and go somewhere together. Never forget to say I love you. Respect each other's opinions even if they differ. Never, ever, ever say anything bad about his mother or his family, and leave him alone when he wants to watch the game. That's the best advice I can give you. It's what makes my marriage work.
2006-10-07 17:07:13 · answer #1 · answered by infernal_seamonkey 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Congratulations! Marriage is a two way street, where both of you will have plenty of opportunity to learn from each other and to grow closer than you ever dreamed possible. The most important thing to starting off on the right foot is communication! If something is wrong, hurts, or feels good, gently let the other person know. Guide each other through each moment of your new lives and you will have a long and blessed marriage.
I know this from 28 years of marriage to the same guy and look forward to many more with him.
2006-10-07 17:54:45 · answer #2 · answered by knittinmama 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have read the previous answers and they have some great advice. I just want to add that you should enjoy the honeymoon and the first night. HAVE FUN !!! Laugh together. Our wedding night was 40 yrs ago, and we still laugh about it. It didn't go the way either of us planned (weather was bad, roads and sidewalks were icy, our sunrise view of the lake was blocked by 2" of ice on the outside of the window. We thought the piped in music was turned off, but was just turned to a station that was off the air. We woke up to Patsy Cline singing "Everybody's Somebody's Fool"), but we had a great time and had fun. And we've have had fun for 40 yrs.
2006-10-07 18:50:04 · answer #3 · answered by old beatnik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey Esha.. love marriage or arranged marriage? if love marriage, i guess u shouldn't be having any issues abt it.... if arranged marriage, then ur worries are justified... anyway juz go with the flow honey.. let the man lead u thru it.. but in any time u don't feel comfortable, then let him know abt it..... maybe u should talk to him abt it before u engage in anything... tell him how u feel abt this and go slow :) Congrats and all the best! May your marriage be blessed upon !
2006-10-07 17:10:01 · answer #4 · answered by SyaKiRa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well congrats. i would say that i really good thing is to go to a bookstore and look at some of those wedding books. kind stupid but some good info. most libraries have them too. i would say for after you get married just have fun.
2006-10-07 16:54:40 · answer #5 · answered by B/Blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm uncertain on cali rules, you may probable call a divorce atty for legalities on that one. in spite of the shown fact that, does no longer propose inevitably which you will break up. the place I bypass away you may get an annulment if there have been no babies born in this marriage. verify your rules there. sturdy success
2016-12-08 10:26:23 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay always treat you spouse with respect. keep your promises and always remember why you married them. always love them and don't let your kids make bad choices. on the first night, don't do anything. wait till you know him better to do anything. yeah take things slow and always be head over heels for your spouse and u'll be happy! :)
and never cheat on him
2006-10-07 16:54:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
honey you go with the flow. every relationship works differently and if your getting married that should mean your in love. so do as your heart says and ignore that voice in your head!
2006-10-07 16:53:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only 60% of newlyweds have sex on there wedding night, so RELAX..
Enjoy your day and let him lead you.. It will be GREAT
2006-10-07 16:54:51 · answer #9 · answered by fishin_girl72 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋