I am a bit confused as to who should pay for your college class ring?I am graduating from my Master's degree next year and they are already taking orders for our class rings. I'm not sure if I am supposed to pay for my ring traditionally or if my parents are. I do feel a bit odd asking them if they are going to pay for it seeing as I am not a kid anymore. But I'm still a broke college student What do you think?
2006-10-07 16:39:57 · 21 answers · asked by Apple Pie 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
The reason I ask is because I've always paid my own rent, bills, and college tuition since the beginning of time. I didn't think it would hurt to ask them to pay for ONE thing since they have the money to do so. But you all are right, it's probably another thing I should pay for myself. =D
2006-10-07 16:49:42 · update #1
Holly, I completely agree. I think most of the people saying that don't even have degrees. You're right, we busted our @sses for it and DESERVE it. =D
2006-10-07 18:07:58 · update #2
For your graduate degree, pay for it yourself. As an undergraduate, my parents bought a beautiful graduation ring for me. For my first master's I did not opt for a ring, I continued to wear the one my parents gave me. For the second one, I splurged and bought an 18kt one with a diamond.I paid for it in installments. It is beautiful and I wear it with much pride. I agree with the poster who encouraged you to get one. When you accomplish something like this, you deserve the ring. My university has strict restrictions on who could even get the ring. If your parents offer to get it or ask what you want for Christmas, then ask for the ring. I know that many people with distinguished military careers also wear rings to represent this. Get it and enjoy it!
2006-10-07 20:25:22 · answer #1 · answered by ValleyViolet 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I know that Jostens, which is my school's ring provider, can order rings from a previous year. If you cannot afford it now, why not save up money when you get your job and order one at a later time?
As a 43 year old full-time college student, wife, and mother of two I understand about the "broke" issue. It's tough to make ends meet and things like rings are just niceties when compared with primary living expenses.
But unless your parents have a lot of surplus cash, I feel it is excessive to ask them for a ring.
2006-10-07 16:44:22 · answer #2 · answered by Searcher 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd say yourself. Because even though you're broke like most college students and people in general i think it would be better to pay for the ring yourself since its your responsibility and i think you're old enough to live on your own and pay for your own things. Like you said that you're not a kid any more so act like an adult and pay for your own things.
Hope that helps!
-Kat
2006-10-07 16:44:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's a tough call - my parents paid for mine, as a graduation gift...I ordered it and was totally prepared to pay for it myself, and then they surprised me by paying for it instead. In your situation, if you can't afford it but would really like it, you could always ask your parents to loan you the money for it, and tell them you will pay them back when you can - that's something you can work out for them. I don't know your parents or their financial situation, but I would think most parents would try to help where they can, it's a special occasion.
Oh, to the people who say you never wear it - I wear mine all the time. I worked really, really hard for it, and I earned the right to wear it. And it's not just me, either, I see lots of people wearing them. It's a badge of honour, my friends. You EARN it.
2006-10-07 17:23:34 · answer #4 · answered by Holly 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
If your parents are paying your tuition, it seems logical they would pay for the class ring. But not mandatory, considering all they've done for you. If they're not paying your tuition, or not all of it, you might hint or just ask them. You know your parents and I don't, so use your judgment. Of course your relationship with your parents is more important than a ring, but you know that.
2006-10-07 16:46:39 · answer #5 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Its up to you. I graduated college with my Masters degree and although I did not purchase a class ring, I would have never asked my parents to purchase it for me.
2006-10-07 16:42:56 · answer #6 · answered by nremtmom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are class rings really that important? How many women do you see wearing one. Trust me, in my job I see thousands of women a year and I have NEVER seen a class ring. You'll buy it (or your parents will) and it will sit in a jewelry box and be forgotten soon after. Spend the money, I expect it will be several hundred dollars, on something that will help you in your future, don't waste it on a class ring.
2006-10-07 16:43:48 · answer #7 · answered by i have no idea 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I never heard of any tradition with that one. I think your honey should if you're in a relationship. If not, someone else who's close to you should do it, or at least offer to pay for half. You are graduating and even though there's nothing wrong with paying for it yourself, it's nice if someone would handle it as a gift!
2006-10-07 16:50:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are supposed to pay for it. If you don't have the $$ to pay for it, maybe you should ask for some help. Most family members will help out for something that will have sentimental value, and also show your accomplishments.
Good luck.
Congrats on being persistent and smart!
2006-10-07 16:47:16 · answer #9 · answered by Debra S 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I would say you should pay for it if you want it BUT since you cant afford it........ask your parents if they would like to buy you the ring, if they dont want to..... dont push it. Good luck
2006-10-07 16:49:16 · answer #10 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋