I started having this feeling for my best friend a couple of months ago. Right now I'm just trying to hide my feeling and pretending everything is going normal. I've posted quite a few questions before and 99.9% of the answers were encouragements that asked me to go for it. The bottom line is keeping our friendship. I'm just not sure if I should tell her how I feel toward her soon, or probably i should wait for another month or so? I just don't want to ruin our friendship. If the right time comes, where and when should I tell her? Thanks!
2006-10-07 16:25:38 · 23 answers · asked by kentfeo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yah.
2006-10-07 16:27:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you already posted posted a few questions and the results were 99.9 % to go for it, and you haven't yet...What are you waiting for ?
You are worried about keeping your friendship with her. In that case,you may never be able to tell her. Obviously, if she is not seeing anyone else, and you two are good friends.Maybe she is waiting for you to speak up.
Just for a little bit more encouragement :
GO FOR IT !!! Now that makes 100%.
2006-10-07 16:39:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SLOW DOWN THERE HOSS!
Take it easy!
These people don't care about your friendship like I do....
You need to wait until you are together watching The Breakfast Club alone in a dark room...then when it's over tell her that even though she's a prep and you're a jock you know it was meant to be (this is a metaphor that you will understand after watching the movie with her).....then thrust your right hand into the air triumphantly and kiss her.
2006-10-07 16:28:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should DEFINATELY tell her! if she is a good friend then even if she doesnt feel the same, she'll be nice about it. yeah, it might be awkward for a bit, but its gets ur feelings out there and maybe one day she'll feel the same. and since shes a good friend she is probably willing to give it shot, even if she isn't feeling anything right now. just ask her at an appropriate time, and for ur sake when its just u two. then she can give u an honest answer. and id tell her asap. good luck!
2006-10-07 16:28:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you just come out and tell her you like her, first tell her and show her you really care about her welfare and happiness.
Let her think about that for a few days, then let her approach you with "I want to know what you really meant when you told me that"
question. Until then, sit back and be the light, never the moth.
Good Luck
2006-10-07 16:31:55 · answer #5 · answered by Mama Mia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her out somewhere or invite her over to your place and hang out then talk to her don't hold you feeling in you never know if you don't tell her now something may happen and you may not have the chance to tell her so tell her and do it soon
2006-10-07 16:36:02 · answer #6 · answered by free2style1026 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEY, I am going through axcactly the same thing!!!! i have also liked my bestfriend for about 2months....i also do not know if i should tell her....i am afraid that if i tell she and she doesn't like me, that we would not even be friends anymore.....if you find a good answer can you please send it to me? thank-you
As for an answer to ur questoin...i do not know...i am asking myself the same question
2006-10-07 16:29:28 · answer #7 · answered by tjd_purplecrazy_84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think you should tell her. As long as you don't cheat on her or anything, it shouldn't ruin your realationship. If she does get upset, tell her that you truly meant no harm to her and appologize. If she if a real friend, she'll understand.
2006-10-07 16:28:42 · answer #8 · answered by BananaWeezy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there, yes you should tell her now that you do really like her. and you can tell her that you like her by telling her in a email or you can tell her over on the phone. or tell her in a note or you can tell her face to face. also you can ask God to help you out about this. good luck on it and be brave when you do it.
2006-10-07 16:40:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell her if your friends anytime your alone is the right time and make sure to tell her how long you've been liking her and you don't want that to make your friendship weird trust me it happened to me once
2006-10-07 16:30:08 · answer #10 · answered by ~*~Dis Chick Iz Delicious~*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in high school, don't kill it now. If your a grown man, go for. Not at all cause your older or anything but cause your more mature. I think you should, but only if your sure. Go with your instinct.
2006-10-07 16:29:25 · answer #11 · answered by dotbrie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋