I dated this good guy friend of mine.We had some good times. We ended up going to a movie together, which I really enjoyed, but I don't think he was as interested in the movie as he was planning on making out with me. We haven't spoken since, which happened to be about a month or so ago? He lives a mile, give or take, from me, so we don't see each other and neither has called the other. I'm wondering if I should just leave it, since I'm not up for the drama of miscommunication, but I don't want him to be hurt.
2006-10-07 16:10:21 · 6 answers · asked by iambic_chatterbox 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave it. He's just not that into you. At all.
2006-10-07 16:13:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him, if he left you because you didn't give up the coochie, he wasn't in love or loving you anyway. He lost the bet with his friends and now he is either going to tell them that you gave it up or he's gonna tell them that it never happened. You said that you live about a mile from him, well you or him can ride a bicycle 1 mile, in less than five minutes. So, don't worry. He lost the bet with his friend and he lost you.
Your feeling didn't matter to him, it was all about scoring, the movie he could have saw on DVD at a later time.
You keep winning and you won't have to worry about STD's or baby sitters.
2006-10-07 23:21:18 · answer #2 · answered by WOODSAK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have two obvious choices
a) wait for him to call you (but don;t hold your breath) or
b) pick up a phone and call him.
Either way, be clear on who you are, who he is and how well, the two of you can hit if off or not. As for communication problems, no matter who you date, try using simple english instead of a lot of pseudo code for things; that way you both know when you want to actually see the movie as opposed to merely using it as the backdrop for play.
Personally, I would call him up and arrange a time to meet somewhere neutral (like a burger joint) to talk and clear th eair on what happened and how you both wan tto proceed.
2006-10-07 23:17:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first off all, dont worry about him being hurt, just act as if nothing has happened after all u should never make out with a guy before being officially dating, that makes hin think ur easy, so make him think u dont care and act like having fun everytime u see him, if u dont ever see him find out were he is and go there really casually and then be like omg what a casualty how r u and act like u dont care att alla bout him..... that will work out with wat u want
2006-10-07 23:16:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a man wants a woman, he goes after her.
It really is that simple.
2006-10-07 23:13:23 · answer #5 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him to say hello
2006-10-07 23:14:18 · answer #6 · answered by bert 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋