The date didn't go so well perhaps due to my complete lack of experience so now she says she just wants to be friends. I would like more than that but I don't want to push it too hard can anybody help me out?
2006-10-07 16:07:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Agree to be her friend and get some practice in to build up your confidence and then ask her out at a later date if you still feel the same way!
2006-10-07 16:10:30 · answer #1 · answered by Lorraine R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should sit her down and have a heart to heart tell her how you really feel if she feels the same way then your all set if not and she is a real friend she will understand your feelings and if she still wants to be friend be the best friend you can be and don't bring up the relationship thing and as time passes and the two of you mature she will notice what a great guy you are and will want to have a relationship with you good luck
2006-10-07 16:12:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cool off and try the friend thing for a while, if it goes well, it gives her a chance to know you better in a non threatening way and perhaps make her interested in seeing you as more.
2006-10-07 16:10:49 · answer #3 · answered by leclairro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow her needs since whe wants to be just friend who knows maybe if she's looking u from a friend point of view she might just like u, for the time being go and boost up ur confidence..all the best
2006-10-07 18:39:14 · answer #4 · answered by ctmaryam_83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mike,
Maybe she was expecting to get boned. Maybe you were nervous and that showed.
Friendship lasts far longer than relationships, so go for the friendly route.
2006-10-07 18:18:06 · answer #5 · answered by Tatiana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be her friend stay real cool with her go places and have lts of fun and hopefully she will see more than she did in you and take u back
2006-10-07 16:13:41 · answer #6 · answered by Ke-Ke H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to say it but it sounds to me like you have blown it. The only way is to accept the friendship thing and hope she changes her mind, as the others have suggested....but don't hold your breath...sorry.
2006-10-07 17:48:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes probably playing hard to get stay 'friends' with her for a while then ask her out
2006-10-07 19:41:39 · answer #8 · answered by reml 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋