I am really very attracted to this guy, it's like I cannot concentrate on things that I have to do and I cannot stop thinking about him everyday and every night. He seems to like me too, but there's something in him that tells me that he is not a guy for a serious relationship which I want. And it's like when I picture the two of us together, it seems like all odds are against us. I know for sure that the relationship won't work. How can I keep him away from my mind?
2006-10-07 16:02:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are having a case of "Infatuation". Trust your instincts. Put him out of your mind. Enjoy life. Stay busy.
Time will tell the "true" story. Give it time.
It sounds like you already know the answer!! Good luck. Pops
2006-10-07 16:06:43 · answer #1 · answered by Pops 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know he is wrong for you?? I bet your friends are telling you he is wrong for you. You speak life. If you say something is not going to work, then its not. If you say it is and believe in this person then you can have a great relationship. Keep a positive mind. If he likes you and you like him, then what's the problem. If he cares about you, doesn't disrespect you, doesn't hit you, then give him a chance. But sometimes we get so caught up on our personal lives, we forget what is important. You need to have a balance. give him some space. Go workout, go hand out with friends, read a book, go for a walk alone. Give him a chance, don't speak negative before you give him a chance. Like i said have a positive altitude, you speak life. Hope this helps!!
2006-10-07 16:17:02 · answer #2 · answered by Beyonce2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got to find a new interest.It's the only way to get him off your mind.Move on,don't waste your time pondering relationships with men that you feel would not be able to give you what you want.I have done it before and i wish i hadn't.The longer you keep thinking of this man the more time it will take to get him out of your head.
2006-10-07 16:08:20 · answer #3 · answered by mommyofsix 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't fall in love with people you don't date or think about.
Focus on other things in life: work, school, hobbies, doing interesting things, family, friends.
Thinking about him is just a bad habit you can easily break if you say STOP to yourself whenever he comes to your mind.
2006-10-07 16:05:14 · answer #4 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you can't afford the dress, doesn't mean you can't try it on. Be happy that he might like you and enjoy yourself. Let yourself smile when you think of him. Marriage isn't just around the corner unless you want it to be.Have fun and good luck!
2006-10-07 16:06:29 · answer #5 · answered by iambic_chatterbox 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
remember that u make thing happen u are able 2 make everything work, just put a thought 2 all solutions and make him ask u aout, remember that u should never confess 2 him wat u feel if u want him for a serious relatiuonship, its a game u gotta make him fall in luv and i personally think u are getting way 2 worried about things,,, screw everyone else what matters is wat u want..
2006-10-07 16:09:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same prob... u just have to FORCE yrself its what I did...
there isnt a way...
u just do...
2006-10-07 16:05:07 · answer #7 · answered by Artificially Sweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you got a wrong impression about him! talk to him!
2006-10-07 16:05:47 · answer #8 · answered by lisette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't know until you try it.
2006-10-07 16:04:30 · answer #9 · answered by brooklynchyck808 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start thinking about someone else
2006-10-07 16:05:52 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋