2006-10-07 16:01:51 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If I'm you new boyfriend, HELL NO.
Since I'm not your new boyfriend, you can do as you like.
2006-10-07 16:04:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are literally on a date with your new boyfriend, then no, you should not talk with your ex.
Otherwise, there is nothing wrong with still speaking with your ex if he is still a friend. Just be honest with your new boyfriend and assure him that there is nothing going on - its just that you are still friends with your ex even though you guys didn't work out as a couple.
If you talk to him a lot and it starts to become a problem with your new boyfriend, slow it up a little, but you shouldn't feel like you are not allowed to talk to any of your friends whether or not they are an ex.
Like I said, as long as you are open and honest with your new boyfriend about your friendship with your ex, he should appreciate your honesty and may be more accepting of the situation. Go easy on him though, because any boyfriend has a right to be suspicious about their girlfriend talking with ex-boyfriends, and it may take him a while to adjust to the idea because of those suspicions whether or not the suspicions are correct.
Keep in mind too that your ex-boyfriend needs to understand that you do have a new boyfriend, and you do need to have special time dedicated to him now, especially if your ex may have any residual feelings.
Just be honest with both of them and it should work itself out for you.
2006-10-07 16:14:57 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Sweetie. That makes some boys think they are less the man that your boyfriend was. Trust me! But just move on and keep the ex to min. because that shows that you still have feelings 4 him.
2006-10-07 16:07:47 · answer #3 · answered by FirstLady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to talk to your ex? If your just friends with your ex I don't see why you can't talk to the ex. But if your ex has other ideas I would stay away. How does your current bf feel about you talking to an ex. Be upfront and let your current bf know that you are friends and nothing more. No more guilt. It sounds like you feel guilty.
2006-10-07 16:04:36 · answer #4 · answered by steve s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with just talking. If your boyfriend says otherwise, then he needs to get a grip, because that kind of insecurity will only damage the relationship.
2006-10-07 16:03:52 · answer #5 · answered by James L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!! I'm married and I don't talk to my ex boyfriends. You're boyfriend should be the only man in your life, not ex's. If you have a group of friends where there are boys, that's fine, as long as none of them are your ex's. Be sure that you're boyfriend follows this as well. You should be the only woman is his life, not his ex's, if her has a group of friends where there are girls, that's fine, as long as none of themare his ex's.
2006-10-07 16:06:13 · answer #6 · answered by afafae25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for what reasons....if you guys are just being friends and your not planning on doing anything...well i don't see nothing wrong with it...but it might make your boyfriend uncomfortable...or even jealous just ask yourself this would you like it if he was still talking to his ex girl....i think you'll get a better answer from that....
2006-10-07 16:10:16 · answer #7 · answered by tanya m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends. I think you can still be friends with your ex, but calling and talking everyday is a NO NO. Would you want your bf talking to his ex everyday?
2006-10-07 16:03:28 · answer #8 · answered by brooklynchyck808 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think out of respect, that should be up to your current boyfriend
2006-10-07 16:05:23 · answer #9 · answered by a b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very simply no not unless your cheating on him or planning to cheat on him that's the only thing that could come out of staying friends with your ex's
2006-10-07 16:04:25 · answer #10 · answered by soldier_boy_250 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋