ok I have been in love with this guy since i was 15 he was 19 hes everything i couldve ever wanted an all around great guy we started talking again when i was 19 and he was with some psycho girl i met him one night after they fought over me calling and i learned a lot about him he just kinda opened up we hit it off we almost slept together but i kinda wonder how that wouldve changed things then his girl threw a fit because i called and gave him an ultimatim he chose her and it hurt so bad when i asked why he said if he left her he said shed have him put in jail for selling but he only does it to pay for college i want to help him so he doesn't have to sell but he blew me off i really care about this guy and want to fix things but don't know what to do i find myself obsessing over him and i know if she wasnt there wed at least be friends it's hard; i can't "just forget him" i've even had dreams of him what do i do? ive stayed away like he wants but i think about him A LOT please help me
2006-10-07 16:00:17 · 4 answers · asked by sweetcheeks 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best remedy for an old love is a new one. Girl I can't stress enough how you should move on with your life and away from the "shoulda couldas". They're a killer. Occupy your time with things that interest you and you may find that a decent guy (who doesn't "deal") is right around the corner...
Take it one minute at a time. It'll be extremely hard, but you will find that it gets easier. I know, I've been there.
Oh, and never, ever, ever go back to him. Ever.
2006-10-07 16:07:41 · answer #1 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about the situation in reverse. If you were already with somebody and then you met this second guy you were totally in love with, would you leave the first guy? Of course! If this guy really wanted you he would already be with you. Besides, it's not worth it to be a seller. Tell him to get student loans like everybody else. You'll think about him a lot because you;re infatuated, but you'll get over it with a little time.
2006-10-07 16:05:26 · answer #2 · answered by tomstrong83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey don't get involved. Wait till he cleans up his act or finishes collage. He might just be making excuses to you for selling but secretly he wants to keep selling. It sound like it could get really tricky and complicated and its probably better you don't get involved for now. Wait and see what happens with him, the girl may loose interest and then u can be with him again and see if he stops selling but untill shes out of the picture, probably best for you if you dont get involved.
2006-10-07 16:05:57 · answer #3 · answered by jiveybaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he used you. Now, do you want to be with someone who is selling? He will end up in prison and you'll be competing with all his "fan mail" move on and find someone better
2006-10-07 16:04:18 · answer #4 · answered by living it 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋