Okay so there's a guy I've been feeling for awhile but I'm old fashion when it comes to who asks who out. So I'm doing a little flirting here and there but he doesn't get it. I mean sometimes he says things to me others I'm invisible to him. I stupidly can't move on properly b/c I fall in love to easily. Also, my confidence is so low I fear not being able to find another man. What should I do? I want your honest answers even if they hurt.
2006-10-07 15:57:16 · 6 answers · asked by Amata555 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like u need to work on yourself before u start a realtionship i think u know this as well ...
2006-10-07 16:01:18 · answer #1 · answered by aaron 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a similar thing happen not too long ago. It finally hit me that this woman had been flirting with me and wanted me to ask her out. When I finally realized what was going on she told me she was seeing someone else. She would do everything; tell me she was getting off work at a certain time, tell me she's not busy etc. I just didn't see it because I was in a different world.
You should stop hinting and just tell him you're interested. It will make your world much easier and you'll know whether he likes you or not. For all you know he may not know you exist, have an interest, or he may be seeing someone. You dont know until you ask.
2006-10-07 16:02:42 · answer #2 · answered by Jeromy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't start speaking up you might lose the best guy for you. I am shy but if i REALLY like someone, i'll speak first. Throw out the old fashioned ways and bring in the 2006! Good luck!
2006-10-07 16:02:35 · answer #3 · answered by brooklynchyck808 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can move on, you just don't want to.
If you fall in love "easily" it's meaningless infatuation.
Your confidence is low because you do little to boost it.
Guys who ignore you aren't worth it.
He isn't your man because I don't think he's a "man" at all yet.
You should focus on other ways to build your confidence that don't involve guys.
Sorry if it hurts, but thanks for seeking the truth.
2006-10-07 16:01:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing is he married ..yeah well if not just stop flirting for awhile ..see what happen..move on... why are woman looking love.... there more to life.....
2006-10-07 16:06:57 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm i have no idea
2006-10-07 15:59:15 · answer #6 · answered by Abercrombie_Cutiee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋