To be obssessed with Kinkyness and im turning 16 in Feb?
I like to be the one powerless and helddown in cuffs...
my friends say im to young to be obessed with it but I am and I cant help it...
^^
2006-10-07 15:51:57 · 22 answers · asked by Artificially Sweet 2 in Health ➔ Other - Health
its kinda weird...especailly if you arent even 16 yet.
2006-10-07 15:53:43 · answer #1 · answered by Lauryn 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're not too young. I wish I could say you're too young, because I wish kids could just not worry about these things until they're educationally and financially prepared for marriage-type relationships. But, fact is, you are not a kid, and you haven't been a kid for a few years now. You are living inside a fully-functional, mostly-adult body, and the only reason you're still a "kid" in any respect is that school drags on for 12+ years. So, while you're still young enough to need guidance of parents or other interested adults, you're not too young to be acting and thinking like a mostly-adult person.
However, only you can decide if it's weird. Some people feel such a desire is linked to childhood abuse; others think it's normal, and still others think it's okay even if it is linked to childhood issues. We all have our issues; the question is always, can you live with your issues and the effects they produce, or do you want to change?
If you're fairly comfortable with your interests, I'd say to go with it. Humans are amazingly creative beings, and we have a phenomenal ability to come up with new and interesting things we like. But, seek advice from wherever it is that teens ask for advice these days (Dear Abby, for example, comes to mind) on how to keep it safe, sane, consensual. If you're not comfortable with it, then maybe it is weird for you.
2006-10-07 23:35:16 · answer #2 · answered by Gen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. it is not weird.
But to be more accurate, it really depends on what you mean by 'weird'.
Strange? It might be unusual to some who don't see themselves as different, who might then naturally describe whatever is different as weird.
Curious? sure. But so is every aspect of sexuality when you really think about it.
Abnormal? I don't know: difficult to have a reference for what is normal in sexuality.
Pleasurable? no one can answer this question better than you.
(hint, don"t think too much about sexuality, just go with your feelings, and with what feels "right", as long as you r not harming yourself or others)
2006-10-07 23:29:23 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. Moe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are connected to God, like a finger attached to a hand. Know that you have Godly power, and you are a magnificent person full of God's light! Always attempt to think in the positive, rather than the negative, as that can really change your life for the better----forever and ever. Please know that you are very powerful and magnificent! You are never powerless, as you're a creature of God. Choose peace, joy, and happiness every moment of your life. God Bless you, sweetheart.
2006-10-07 23:03:59 · answer #4 · answered by sjs 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask yourself how safe is it to be powerless. It could lead into big trouble for you down the road and now. Safety is not being powerless.
2006-10-07 22:54:52 · answer #5 · answered by Lore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it weired, No, it's a bit unusual at your age...and what your referring to is dominance, and submission...you like the idea of being submissive, millions of men and women enjoy the same things..but to be honest with you, i remember having similar thoughts and stuff at that age also...as long as you keep everything in a healthy perspective, and don't get overly carried away your fine.
2006-10-07 23:01:53 · answer #6 · answered by MyDreams2Be 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just Remember!
Rudolph, the red-nosed reindeer
had a very shiny nose.
And if you ever saw him,
you would even say it glows.
All of the other reindeer
used to laugh and call him names.
They never let poor Rudolph
join in any reindeer games.
Then one foggy Christmas Eve
Santa came to say:
"Rudolph with your nose so bright,
won't you guide my sleigh tonight?"
Then all the reindeer loved him
as they shouted out with glee,
Rudolph the red-nosed reindeer,
you'll go down in history!
maybe a bit to young to be overly obssed about it lol
2006-10-07 22:56:22 · answer #7 · answered by Donovan 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
allot of people enjoy being dominated. its a fetish and a harmless one. You are a bit young but as long as you practice safe with some one you trust you should be fine. There's nothing wrong with you.. its just some thing that turns you on.. nothing more.
2006-10-07 23:24:28 · answer #8 · answered by TimeWastersInc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the age of 16 is just the time to be obsessed with sex. It's perfectly normal, but just be carful to not get too into it. It could effect your future sex life.
2006-10-07 22:55:47 · answer #9 · answered by smashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your 16..an age when sex is one of the first things on your mind no doubt. Nothing wrong with liking ropes and cuffs...some ppl like it..some ppl don't.
2006-10-07 22:54:16 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes sex should be on your mind, but at your age you have to be careful not to get yourself in a position that could kill you! Kids your age I don't feel understand when to stop, or you may get gang raped! That will be with you forever. If this is a lifestyle you must be in then please be with someone you know VERY well! Please be careful!
2006-10-07 23:04:23 · answer #11 · answered by sweethometexas2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋