if so what can I do?
2006-10-07 15:43:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Nobody but you can know if you should be worried. If you are uncomfortable with the amount of time, money, or energy you spend on porn, if you are uncomfortable with how often you turn down other activities to make time for porn, if you find your social life and hobbies are dwindling enough to be unacceptable to you, then you should be worried.
If you are comfortable with your usage, and its effects on all areas of your life, then you should not be worried. Addiction to anything comes down to, do you believe it is a problem or addiction? If the answer is yes, it doesn't matter if it's "not that bad," you have a problem and can get help. If the answer is no, it doesn't matter how bad it is, you have to wait until you see the need to stop.
One thing you can do if you are concerned is to find a group that works with addictions. I would look for something styled after Alcoholics Anonymous, but that takes all types of addiction or dysfunction. I would specifically seek a group where they aren't going to be flipped-out by somebody who's concerned about their porn use. They need to not treat you like a leper, and they need to not brush off your concerns as nothing. Unlike substances like drugs or alcohol, others cannot see the effects of porn addiction in your life, and they cannot tell you how well you can cope with those effects. They may present their experience or clinical knowledge, but only you have the expertise to decide whether or not you need to do something about it.
2006-10-07 15:56:47 · answer #1 · answered by Gen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has been watch porn long in the previous you have been in the image and he will verify out it long when you're long previous. His viewing of porn has no longer something to do with you, your acceptance, nor your prowess in mattress. the fact he's a liar and a douche bag are thoroughly on him and his character. you have become healthy and he's mentally abusing you thru calling you fat once you're no longer. he's being passive aggressive by decrying porn then staring at it and then of all issues telling you approximately it yet refusing to debate the region extra beneficial. Why are you with this Jack hollow?! omit, you're able to do plenty extra beneficial than him. you recognize it. i are conscious of it. Frankly, he's many times going on with it too.
2016-12-26 12:24:32 · answer #2 · answered by santolucito 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend made you watch porn with him. Does that sound right to you? He can't make you do anything. You did it because you were either curious or you wanted to. If you are still watching porn when he is gone then that is up to you. I wouldn't panic over it but if you are still watching it that is up to you too. No one can make you do anything. You are doing it because you want to and that is that. Good Luck and God Bless
2006-10-07 15:47:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes porn is interesting, but life can go along just fine without it, too. Don't miss out on more idealistic, romantic entertainment, because that's important too. When you're about 55, you will be bored with sex. Humans are very sexy critters.
2006-10-07 15:54:32 · answer #4 · answered by papyrusbtl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lots of people watch porn not just men! its cool because sometimes you learn things that you may have never thought of before and you may want to try, thats probably why it appeals to you also, something new. Dont be worried ;)
2006-10-07 15:52:47 · answer #5 · answered by Esme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its like when you learn a new word, you seem to use it alot at first, but then it will just become a normal thing...so dont worry and just enjoy yourself...now if you want to star in some pron then that might be something to worry about, if so contact me...and I'll let you in on some inside secerts about that field....
2006-10-07 15:47:43 · answer #6 · answered by wizzard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's great!! A girl who loves porn. I am very impressed and happy for your boyfriend!
2006-10-07 15:51:22 · answer #7 · answered by Mike Oxlong 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take some time to indulge in some other disgusting habit. Like spreading boogers on peoples dogs, or videotaping death scenes and living in your mothers basement.
2006-10-07 15:47:45 · answer #8 · answered by maguathehearteater 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no if thats what your in too im sure your boyfriend wont have a problem with it . most girls hate porn or wont admit to watching it. so i dont think you have a problem.
2006-10-07 15:48:08 · answer #9 · answered by mstycain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No big thing. It's just curiosity and we all go through it so don't worry.
2006-10-07 15:48:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋