i like someone i want to tell her i like her but i dont know how but in an unexpected way were 12.i dont know how older people help.
2006-10-07 15:42:07 · 13 answers · asked by bloo b 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i like someone in my class. i want to tell her i like her in a unexpected way.were 12.but i still want to stay friends but i want her to know i like her in a unexpected way.
2006-10-07 15:47:07 · update #1
It's been my understanding that most boys are inept at telling a girl they like her. Want the MOST unexpected way? Tell her straight up. This way you're not wasting silly time giving her looks and then when she sees you doing it you look away or.....you're not going through a third party, "So, she got a boyfriend? I like her. Does she like me?" and then "Yeah, she said she sorta likes you" and then "Sorta likes me, what's that mean..." and so on. Just be direct. Tell her. Ask her if she wants to study with you or do whatever shared interest you have together. Piece of cake. If you can be direct, you're head and shoulders above other boys your age.
2006-10-07 15:46:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
K, I am not all that in touch with 12 year old culture but here's somethings I would have liked at that age:
-put something sweet like a stuffed animal or rose in her locker with a note from you
-teasing her with emails, letters, or gifts from a secret admirer for a bit before you reveal your identity
-send an ecard via email
-showing up at an event, extracurricular activity that she enjoys
Anyway good for you for putting some imagination into it! You are one step ahead of the other guys already. :)
2006-10-07 22:53:24 · answer #2 · answered by JustTalking 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the girl is just in eye site, before she even looks up at you, lower your voice and Say" Hi..(her name) "and hold her eye contact for as long as you can, then when she answers you and looks back up at you,,keep your eye contact with her, standup straight and smile a little smile, DO NOT LOOK DOWN or AWAY. Do this every time you see her. She will eventually get the hint...I love it when guys do this with thier eyes, and a sexy voice. It will imidiatily make you more mature and self confident.
2006-10-07 22:47:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur 12, just hang in there a little longer and at least wait until ur 13 and a little more mature. sorry to say this, but i think ur a little young 4 a gf. just be good friends with her until then and get to know her better
2006-10-07 22:44:43 · answer #4 · answered by dover_luv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well junior take a deep breathe. Relax. Is this someone you normally talk to? If it is don't do it in public but don't make it to private. When you can tell her: Don't freak out and don't get upset but i just wanted to tell you that I kinda like you, but if you don't like me its cool I understand and I don't want to mess things up between us I just had to let you know. If she likes you then just take it from there. Try not to get nervous and just play it cool. Young love is tough youngster. Good luck.
2006-10-07 22:48:25 · answer #5 · answered by Popcorn Playa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't know how older people help? What does that have to do with it?
Send her a card in the mail. Send her flowers w/ a note or something.
2006-10-07 22:44:07 · answer #6 · answered by fiestyredhead 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should flirt with her more and try to impress her more by doing things that she likes or you could get a friend and get them to ask her the things she likes but she cant know its one of your friends and them if that don't work then try to have courage to ask her out by being scared you wont never get a girlfriend!
2006-10-07 22:48:17 · answer #7 · answered by jred14aka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are too young for this
go read a book!
2006-10-07 22:42:40 · answer #8 · answered by dvl_n_dskyz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats ur email again
2006-10-07 23:17:26 · answer #9 · answered by allie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just come out and say it.
it's never really expectd
2006-10-07 22:43:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋