aparrently this guy decided that he liked me a lot for some reason and told his friend all about it, and she just happens to be one of my friends. I don't like him that way, I'm sorry but there is no attraction. I could've liked him as a freind but the way he acted kept freaking me out and i found it very hard to be around him. Now my friend seemed to think that I'd be happier if I had a boy-freind, which really is the last thing i want. (no offence to the guys, I like them-well some of them- and all, but i'm really not interested in a relationship with anyone) she get's a note from this guy to give to me and I didn't want to read it, because i knew what it would say, So she read it to me- It was gushing, and gross. She wanted me to date him, I DID NOT. She told him,(without my knowiledge) that I liked him. So he tried to take me somewhere to talk as 'boyfriend, girlfriend' I ended up telling him the truth and now he acts like i'm a horrible person, but is it worse then lying to him?
2006-10-07 15:29:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You did nothing wrong. You know want you want and you spoke the truth. He may be hurt now, but think how horrible of a person you really would have been had you lead him on. As I said, he's hurt and disappointed, give him a little time to get over being rejected and all will be "normal". I would however have a few choice words with your friend for leading the poor boy on.
2006-10-07 15:38:53 · answer #1 · answered by Itsalongnight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh boy yeah. i develop into way too youthful and afraid to have a intense relationship even as i develop into with my first X. He develop into shifting issues way too quickly, met his relations, went to his relations reunions, develop into toasted as "James' fiance to be" and that i truly couldn't cope. His relations were truly controlling too. I had to end it. unhappy challenge develop into we ended on undesirable words, we did not even get to be acquaintances again. Then after 5 months I realised that I made the most important mistake of my existence through letting him bypass. no count number how a lot his relations drove me insane, I loved him. So i tried again to make issues paintings. Amazingly adequate, after a lengthy communicate, we keen to commence courting again. regrettably the 2d time round felt diverse. the relationship were damaged through the first destroy - up and the love wasn't there anymore. I quickly ended it again and many Xs later I nevertheless have not learnt my lesson! lol. *sigh* courting is this kind of drama. lol.
2016-12-04 09:36:14 · answer #2 · answered by snelling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope.....nothing wrong on ur side...u have always been clear from ur side and didnt provoke him in any kinda way...so i think u ididnt do anythin intentionally atleast for this to happen.sit down with him and explain wat had happend,atleast he will have a clear mind and will stop acting the way he does.u also need to speak to ur friend.all the best
2006-10-07 15:38:56 · answer #3 · answered by anonymous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, your friend betrayed you. You were being honest, and I assume, kind. If she can't understand that what she did was very wrong, you need a new friend.
2006-10-07 15:32:38 · answer #4 · answered by Singinganddancing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend is the villain. She should have listened to you. Now all you can do is let time heal all.
2006-10-07 15:32:52 · answer #5 · answered by woundbyte 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋