It looks like my marriage is coming to an end and I'm a but worried about getting back into the dating scene (it's been 9 years).
32 years old
6'3"
200 lbs
Black hair
Green eyes
Manager of HR at a hospital
Like to go out and meet people
Musician
I have a type-A personality - which turns some women off, but I know what I want and I'm not afraid to take risks to get there.
2006-10-07 15:28:43 · 15 answers · asked by felonius_monkey 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whoa. Your marriage isn't (technically) over yet!
But, if it is, hop in the time machine, go back to 1987 and give me a call. ;-)
2006-10-07 15:31:36 · answer #1 · answered by sparticle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you are still marketable - you haven't reached the end of your shelf life yet!
When my dear husband of almost 20 years died at the age of 40, I was 38 years old, with 2 teen-agers - I felt like I was an overweight, middle-aged housewife and that no-one would be interested in me. I spent a couple of years pulling myself together and was lucky enough to meet a man who was interested in me (geeze, who would have known!)
To cut a very long story short, I have been happily married to a wonderful man for 11 years and have my two kids from my first marriage, who are now 30 & 27, two step-children who are 29 & 26, and we had one together who is now 9 years old.
Life is wonderful, I have been blessed to have been married to two wonderful husbands - some women don't get ONE!
My advice would be to be yourself, take things slowly, don't rush into another relationship too quickly, there are lots of fish in the sea and you sound like you have good bait! You don't have to keep the first one you "reel in", take your time and have fun!
Good Luck!
2006-10-07 15:50:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will find Ms. Right someday. But, first, you need to get through the stages of seperation and divorce before moving onto a new relationship. There is nothing wrong with being alone for awhile and when you are ready to date again, you well find many women interested.
2006-10-07 15:34:29 · answer #3 · answered by Christy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confidence is key, regardless of your stats and your looks if you don't believe you are worth dating-- nobody will.
Have a positive attitude and be willing to talk to people openly, I am sure you will find somebody.
Dating isn't a fad and doesn't really change too much with the times. Dinner and a movie still works.
2006-10-07 15:31:32 · answer #4 · answered by Bowl O' Knowledge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from what you described no it wouldnt be to late for you ,you are only 32 hello and from your description seems like your attractive i'm sorta in the same situation with my marriage and i'm 34 well good luck to the both of us!LOL!
2006-10-07 15:51:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, in my opinion, you have to know what you want before you can get what you want. i'm sorry to hear about your marriage, but just because it didn't work, that does not make you a bad person, nor does it mean you can't find someone better! good luck- hope you find someone!
2006-10-07 15:32:55 · answer #6 · answered by sweetcheeks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are sounding kind of like an asshole, pal. You are still a married man so you need to take care of that part of your life. You physical descripition does not matter....trust me,. you will definitely have to work on your Type A (for Asshole) personality!
2006-10-07 15:34:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont believe you will have any problems at all getting a date! Take care
2006-10-07 15:33:16 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you are ( you sound really attractive)! I'll bet there are women at work who are crazy about you. Just take things slowly and be honest with the women you date. Also, please, please, please don't assume that every woman you date is like your ex, you will miss out on some terrific women that way. Good luck!
2006-10-07 15:32:41 · answer #9 · answered by remmymarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are fat and have a type A personality. You sit on your fat *** behind a desk at a hospital. Not much to market there. Wear a shirt that compliments your green eyes...it's your only hope.
2006-10-07 18:04:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋