My girlfriend says that I'm boring. I'm really shy and don't talk a lot. She's very sweet and I want to do anything to stay with her, even if it involves me talking, I need tips on how to start conversations, if I can get any tips I would greatly appreciate it
2006-10-07 15:21:00 · 9 answers · asked by chevroletman19851999 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my ex-husband was incredibly non-talkative and that drove me nuts. However, try to communicate with her more and do some fun activities together.
2006-10-07 15:22:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Another word for boring is dull and routine. She wants something different....to be suprised. What does she like to do? Ask her to tell you what she would like to do with you. Look in your local paper and go to some festivals. Perfect time of year for that. Drive to your state park, go for a hike, pack a picnic and step out of your comfort zone. Doesn't have to be a big expensive night. Just fun and different and maybe sneak a little heavy petting to spice it up. Be creative. Put a note in her coat pocket or her car seat and tell her to meet you somewhere and have a date like when you first met.
2006-10-07 15:30:50 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you take her out more often. Find something that she is interested in doing or you are interested in doing. Like a broadway musical show, ice skating, snorkeling, kayaking, etc. Doing lots of activities will get you pump up in talking about what you like about the event or activities you guys just did. Oh....Make sure you ask a lot of question involving her. Like what's her favorite, things......That will totally start a conversation and it makes a girl feel special that you are interested in her.
GIRLS LOVE SUPRISES!^_^ *wink* *wink*
2006-10-07 15:26:46 · answer #3 · answered by strawberry_kiss_gurlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something really fun that you would both enjoy doing that would make you both laugh, like ice skating. Doing fun / silly things naturally stimulates conversation, plus she will see you are not boring. Sometimes you just have to put yourself out of your comfort zone!
2006-10-07 15:30:06 · answer #4 · answered by meg515 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a really good listener. Get to know her really well. Ask her to tell you her fantasies, or watch her to figure out what they might be. Be observant. Then step out of your comfort zone once in a while and do something you think she'll like and will really surprise you.
When people are shy it's because they're focusing on themselves... if you focus on HER, you won't be as nervous.
2006-10-07 15:25:09 · answer #5 · answered by Singinganddancing 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
start your conversation which is interesting in her side. And when you are dating make a romantic moves. Be sweet to her. In this time it is no longer unusual in a certain relationship.
2006-10-07 15:25:04 · answer #6 · answered by psychedelic_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women like men who can step up. If you can't step up, or step IT up, she'll eventually leave you. Slip out of your comfort zone a little and try to be a little more of what she wants. Or, find a girl who likes you just as you are.
2006-10-07 15:29:41 · answer #7 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you wouldnt have to talk that much, bring her to your favorite fun place, show her how to do stuff she doesnt know how to do,EXPLAIN it to her, ask her what she likes, and if it doent work out, than you deserve somone thats not afraid to TRY to bring out your exiting side,
crack open that shell, someone who could help you out, not try and go along with it and and fuss at you about it the whole way.........just think about it
2006-10-07 15:27:21 · answer #8 · answered by becca:D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she should like you for who you are and not call you boaring...you jusy need time you will start to talk more....trust me...i am shy too...and what i said works.
2006-10-07 16:59:57 · answer #9 · answered by ~*~Sweets~*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋